My boyfriend LoVeS hand jobs, but only if they are done accordingly.

He has his techniques pin-pointed and I have trouble keeping up to par.

He likes FRICTION and ridiculously STRONG GRIP.

I am aware that he likes it like that and if it hurt he would tell me, but if I gripped any harder it would be my strongest clench and i fear it would turn blue and like.. break.

Also, he only gets that FrIsKy when he's supremely drunk and he's never asked me to do it like that sober.

Do you think that it's unsafe to follow through with it when he thinks from a drunk mind and his perception of everything (including feeling) is WAY off..?

I think it actually does hurt him, but maybe he gets aroused by pain..?