Once you stop your pills, your body will have to start its cycles again. It is likely to be different from the pill cycles, as well as from your cycles before the pill. So it may take a few months for your app to catch up with your new cycles. Just keep on putting your data in.
There is really no risk if the condom did not break or slip off. One of you should always check the condom after he takes it off to make sure it is still intact.
Your first step is to stop freaking out. There is no reason to freak out. You can take a pregnancy test now to make sure and put your mind at ease. Do another test 7 days later to confirm the results. Make sure you follow the instructions exactly.
If you are planning to stay sexually active, consider going back on the pill and using condoms. That is by far the most safe combination until you meet the guy you want to start a family with.
Until you can confirm you are pregnant, there is not really anything to tell your family or your friend. You do not have to decide about keeping the baby or giving it up for adoption, or even consider adoption.
After the tests, you can decide what to do.
Best of luck!