There are no other place in your body that opens up in your vulva to store that much fluid, other than the bladder. Nothing in the human anatomy can make enough fluid instantaneously to "gush" in such a short time frame. The body is not a tap connected to a fluid supply that can just be opened to make it gush out unless it comes from the bladder. If it did not come from the bladder then where did it come from? You will surely feel it in your abdomen if a cup full of fluid suddenly appear there.

Female ejaculation is normally at most a teaspoon of sweet fluid, often cloudy or creamy. This is what the urethral sponge manufactures and what is commonly believed to be female ejaculate.

This is not what you see in the "movies", but then when last did you see a nine inch penis or a man that could have sex for hours and ejaculate cups full time after time, other than in the "movies".

It is most likely fluid from the bladder. During orgasm all sorts of pressures and contractions will go through the pelvic floor and it can force the bladder valve to open up. There are some speculation that the bladder manufactures some clear fluid or that fluid from the urethral sponge push back in the urethra into the bottom of the bladder during sexual stimulation and that is what is gushing out. It is not pure urine but it contains some components of urine and some from the female prostrate (urethral sponge) It will feel good because it fits in with the pattern of general pressure release and relaxation that the orgasm brings.

You should make sure that you urinate immediately before you get stimulated. You should also not "push out" or bear down during orgasm. Do not clinch up but also do not push. You can also just put down some towels and enjoy it or try it in the shower or bath.

There is nothing wrong with you, susan is missing a few important points here.

There are actually 2 types of what is called female ejaculate. The first, and most well known, comes from the vaginal walls - it's basically an overflow of sorts of the natural lubricants the vag produces. When people refer to cumming, this is what they typically refer to. The fluid is milky, pretty thick, and usually only a small amount is produced. Some women can squirt it if they have good muscles and produce a lot of it, most women it just kinda drips out.

The second type is much less known, happens for different reasons, and is (in my experience) MUCH more enjoyable and intense. I can't remember the technical name for it, but what happens is when the paraurethral glands (the glands in between the g spot tissue and the urinary tract) are stimulated during sex, they begin to release SIGNIFICANT amounts of fluid. The fluid is released into the urinary tract. It doesn't seep out because the pressure applied to the gspot narrows the urinary tract and makes it clench up. When the pressure is decreased, or the fingers pulled completely, the fluid that has been building up in the tract will violently gush out, in MUCH larger amounts than expected. We're talking up to 2 cups (even as much as a LITRE has been recorded). The fluid itself is generally clear to milky in consistancy, and it tastes either like nothing or kind of sweet (there are actually two types of sugars contained in the fluid). The fluids that comprise it are MUCH different than urine - sometimes trace amounts of urine will enter in because of the amount left on the walls of the urethra, or if you continue pushing past when your lover has released pressure, it will cause your bladder to empty itself. This release of fluid amounts to an AMAZING orgasmic feeling because of the feeling of release and pressure, even though the action is separate from orgasm.

Bottom line, you aren't urinating. I have urinated before sex and produced almost a cup and a half of fluid from this kind of ejaculation, and I've been able to do it up to 4 times in less than 2 hours of sex. Not every woman can do it either, because women vary in the amounts of paraurethal tissue they posesses. You should feel really happy and lucky! Keep doing what you're doing, explain this to your lover, and have happy sex.

Thems42,

There is no gland in the human body (male or female) that can manufacture that much fluid on demand in such a short time. No blood, semen, saliva, arousal fluid, menstruation or urine.

So where does it come from? If it builds up in the ‘female prostrate’ glands you will look like a giraffe that swallowed a beach ball because there would be two cups of fluid (or up to a liter) jammed into that small area between your vagina and your pubic bone. At 30 ml the volume of the fluid will be 9 times the volume of the area it is claimed to come from. At a liter it will have to swell up 300 times its own size. A cup will make it swell up 70 times its own size.

It is like saying that if you rub your ring finger for a few minutes, it will build up a liter of fluid (or two cups of fluid) in your finger and squirt it out all at once if it have a valve. I think that you can appreciate that this is not possible.

The other option is that it will not be building up but be manufactured on the spot, so about 4 ml every 0.8 seconds. Once again, no known gland in the body can manufacture fluid at that rate.

The only place where that much fluid can be stored is in the bladder which has the space and ability to expand...

The tissue that makes up this are around the urethra is the same tissue that forms the male prostate gland. I am yet to see a man that can ejaculate 1 or 2 cups or a liter!

In the studies done a catheter was placed into the woman's bladder. What is considered female ejaculate leaked from around the tube and contained PSA (prostrate marker) and urine came out in greater quantities from the tube stuck into the bladder when she was sexually stimulated.

The latest British studies showed that this "prostatic" fluid can be produced by stimulating the clitoris or the g-spot and it happens independent of an orgasm. It is however still only a few drops of fluid to a little less than a teaspoon full.

From other studies it has also been shown that female urine after sex contains PSA supporting the theory that the actual female prostatic fluid pushes up into the bladder from where it gets released in these large quantities. These amounts of cross contamination between PSA and urine are too much to be explained by "left over".
There is nothing wrong with female ejaculation; no matter where it comes from and how much it is and what fluids are mixed in with it. As you indicated, it is extremely pleasurable and a lot of fun. There is no reason why a woman should be ashamed of anything coming from her body. Men normally enjoy this even more than their partners and a man that is repulsed by it is not worth it to keep around.

I won't argue the science behind the paraurethal glands because there simply hasn't been enough research behind them to say that they CAN'T release that much fluid - and in any case, the amount of fluid released from person to person is going to differ because none of our bodies are the same.

What research has been done has been focused mainly on the amount of fluid released and the composition of the fluid. The composition of this fluid is completely different than urine - it only contains trace amounts of urea. The fluid itself is actually composed of fluids from 3 seperate sources, the paraurethal glands being one of them. The composition differs from woman to woman, but the one thing that remains constant is that the fluid is NOT urine. If you are ever in close contact with it you'll find that it does not smell, or look like urine, and like i said before it tastes either like nothing or kind of sweet (which is not what id expect urine to taste like).

As for the amount not coinciding with what is known about the urethra, I can only speak from my personal experience. I always make it a point to urinate before sex, and I can achieve this kind of orgasm in as little as 20 minutes. When it happens to me, over a cup of fluid gushes out at one time, not even through my own pushing but by fingers being removed from my vagina. The pressure build up through out the experience is tangible, I can feel it, and I can feel the release. For as much as I know about the body, I atleast know that it is impossible to produce almost a cup of urine in 20 minutes while actually sweating and dehydrating during sex.

what do you suggest doing to lessen the amount of fluid that the female orgasm produces? just urinating right before any kind of play?

That will be good. You can also just learn to enjoy that as a natural part of your love making. Use some extra protection over the bed and go for it!!