If you have thought this over well and feel that this is the only way out, then you have done the right thing.....Even though your feeling is of leaving a man that you married, this same hurt could be from leaving any other person that you love/loved in your life...You feel that it has to be....That doing this deed is giving you life...That life is worth living and that by staying with them that you no longer could grow and be happy....

In my opinion, being at peace within, is worth all the money in the world...That's the way I look at life....I wish you well...I promise you it will get better...Honey, time does heal...

I send you my best wishes...

Caroline

my mother had been married twice, and she said going through a divorce is like loosing someone.

you havn't shared much details, and if you dont want that's fine. if you feel like you put your all into the marriage and there's nothing else you can possible do to save it. then you

probably feel bad for going through with it. i know most women endure so much, and are very durable to most things. and when we say enough is enough.
all i can say is things will get better through time.