hmm. well I know so far making him work
for it has helped me. I like it when we
make out and stuff before we do it. But
that rarely happens anymore sence he knows
he can get sex whenever. But I have been
making him turn me on before we do
anything. Like when he usually would just
take my pants off (tmi?) and we'd go at
it, I either pull them back up and give
him a sexy look (which makes him kiss me)
or I kiss him. Either way! i SOMEHOW get
him to kiss me first before he gets
anything. Its sad really lol, I am
"training" him. lol, like a dog. and he
doesnt even know lol.
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xbostonx
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2008 Posts: 96 Location: Boston, MA
Posted: 03-19-08 10:11am
haha i actually read a article in cosmo
that sed we can basically train our men
like dogs but in a more human manor l0l.
he does the same thing just pull the pants
off and go at it. we used to have more
foreplay all the time but hes been getting
better lately. he'll give me foreplay be4
sex now. also we had a probable with him
eatting me out. he never did it. so i
stopped giving him bjs (tmi maybe) l0l.
but he recently did it and it was great.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 03-19-08 10:11am
Why haven't you girls told your bf's of
these concerns? They're not psychic so if
they think everything is OK with how
they're doing it then they'll keep doing
it. Suddenly changing things up is only
going to make them suspicious that you're
cheating, or you don't like them anymore.
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xbostonx
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2008 Posts: 96 Location: Boston, MA
Posted: 03-19-08 10:13am
the thing is we both have talked to our
boyfriends about it. and it didnt really
work.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 03-19-08 10:16am
Well at least they know. If they get dumb
and start being suspicious you can at
least fall back on that and say "look, I
told you what was wrong and you didn't
change, so now I'm doing it myself!"
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xbostonx
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2008 Posts: 96 Location: Boston, MA
Posted: 03-19-08 10:18am
yeah exactly l0l. the past few days of
actually acting different has worked. i
got sick of always having to work for the
sex. its his turn now l0l.
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collegegirlie
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 15 Feb 2008 Posts: 49
Posted: 03-19-08 10:27am
Yea Eiri I told mine too, i explained the
conversation on page 1.
But yea sence I talked to my guy friend
and seriously took his advice it is
working. I have tried this hole "holding
out and making him work for it" thing
before but i would always get too horny
and give in lol :-/ but i finally did it
for long enough and now that i see its
paying off i have the insentive to keep it
up!
And boston i had the same problem with him
eating me out a while back too, and i did
the same thing. "no oral for me?? No oral
for you." lol. And it worked lol "baby why
dont you suck my dick anymore?" "Why
dont you suck mine?" lmao, but seriously,
it worked lol.
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xbostonx
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 16 Mar 2008 Posts: 96 Location: Boston, MA
Posted: 03-19-08 10:30am
haha idk guys are soo weird. you can't
live with them and you can't live without
them.
lol, I am
"training" him. lol, like a dog. and he
doesnt even know lol.
