You're normal. Only 10% of women can orgasm from just the vagina. There may be nothing you can do. I've never done it either.

My bf is being the same way. All I can say is MAKE HIM WORK FOR IT. My best friend who I tell everything is a guy and I told him what was going on between me and my bf, that I am horny all the time and he never wants sex. My friend told me that it must be somewhat routine for him, so its not as exciting anymore. Hold out and make him work for it again, like he used to have to when it was new. And when you do do it try new things to keep him guessing. Guys love the feeling of accomplishment.
I just started this with my bf about a week ago and think its working!

As for the orgams, rub your clit yourself during sex. It works great. and Sometimes I will do it then when you get close you can stop and you dont even need to stimulate your clit to orgasm if he is hitting your g spot.

yeah i think i am going to start holding out i did it for a little while but then i caved in. But we recently bought a vibrator and he loves when we play it or watching me play with it.

I know, I have a hard time holding out too. But come on we can do it!! lol, i really think this will work for us.
Do little things like dont bring the vibrator into the bed, dont mention it, wait till he wants it bad enough that HE goes to get it.
Like my bf loves when I touch myself during sex, but lately i dont do it. Yesterday he wanted it so bad he grabbed my hand and put it there and told me to do it.
We need to make THEM beg, haha.

haha yeah we do. i have a pair of booty shorts that he loves. so sumtimes i walk around wearing them just to tease him its great l0l.

or something else you can do. Walk around without a bra on on a day that you dont wanna have sex. That makes him so mad lol

haha sweet. Also does you bf not like to make out with you as much anymore?

yea! god that sucks too cuz i love making out. Something I do to get him to makeout with me is, when he is sleeping I will kiss him lightly and he'll wake up and kiss me back and then I use tongue. This turns him on so bad, and and it usually ends in a little more than making out ^.- but other than that I have no tricks for getting him to makeout i need to come up with more.

do you have any?

no i dont have any at all really. Ill kiss his neck then ill start kissing him but if i kiss him like 5 times in a row he still just gives me pecks. its like they only want to have sex when they want too and wont let us turn them on. its not fair l0l god forbid if we have sex when WE want too

I know I feel the same exact way. Have you told him that?
I told mine and he just argued stupid stuff like "you make it a job". what? how is it a job. I just want sex. Its sex, not a job lol. Like its not the same thing when HE wants it and I do it for him. It hurts cuz its like- if you love me, why dont you want me as much as i want you? Why is my desire for you a JOB? To me his desire for me makes me feel loved. Its not fair...

yeah i have told me that and we pretty much had the same conversation. Ive been with him for 2 years and he just told me like 2 weeks ago that he thought the first like 8 months of our relationship was based on sex. when he told me this i was in shock. i could not believe he said that seeing that he gave me a promise ring for our 6 month anniversary. that really hurt my feelings. I can suggest you trying the vibrator and porn thing. My boyfriend knowing that i have one i think has helped a little bit lately.

I don't think its fair for you to just sit there and let him do this. Do you really wanna be with him forever and let your relationship continue down hill like this? I really think we have to make it better NOW or its only gunna get worse and worse over time.

i knowww. the past couple of days have been pretty good though. so hopefully it is getting beter.

omg me too. lol. I am just scared its gunna go away again, like it always does. Does it seem to come in spurts for you guys?

yeah he deff. gets into his little moods for sure. so the past few days were good. we played around a bit last night but didnt have sex. i wasn't feeling well so we didnt. but probably more than likely its gunna go away. i also posted this probable in the guy sectiion and i found out that a guys sexual peak ends around 20ish and a womens doesnt stop until the 30's. im not sure how true that is though.

I've read that but I've also read that its different for everyone. But I know 30 and 40 year old men that can't get anough sex too.

yeah i work with sum guys in there 30's and they can get enough. i dont know if maybe its because we've been together for 2 years so maybe its just not as exciting. somebody recommended a game called "A hot affair" have u ever heard of it?

no what is it?

i guess its a sex game you can play with your partner. sum1 suggested it to me to spice things up