i think it's worthy of discussion on how to recover gracefully from an embarrassing moment in the bed.

i'm talking about how we handle embarrassing moments and how our reactions and the reactions of our partners can either totally diffuse an embarrassing moment or it can scar us for life.

i don't think there is a thing wrong with laughter in the bedroom as long as it's laughing WITH someone instead of against them. there is all sorts of funny stuff that happens. the important thing is that we understand and appreciate the humanity of what is going on, and show the people we love that we love them in the way that we react to what could be their humiliation.

the reason i mention this is because i have had embarrassing things happen to me in the bed and i've also seen things happen with my b/f that could have or would have been embarrasing to him. in both cases with us, we have recovered well and i think it's a testament of how much we love eachother. we've even laughed about embarrasing things (a couple of times until our stomachs hurt) but noone ever got hurt by it.

show your peeps the love everyone! make sure if they put themselves out there for your enjoyment, your love, your pleasure, etc. that if something wayward happens, that you act right about it.

jasmine