K well its been about a week that i have had this..and it was about a week ago that i had sex with my girlfriend, i did use protection how ever i didnt use protection during oral. Well so far it burns when i urinate, and ive noticed that the meatus looks kind of red and a little swollen but not much, ive read that these are symptons of gonorrhea, but ive asked my girl if she has messed around with anyone else..we were both virgins...how does a person get gonorrhea? does this mean that she did mess with someone else? or can a person get gonorrhea another way? im going to the doctor tommorow to see what i have. Sometimes it burns REALLY bad and sometimes its really lightly, actually i went to a party 2 days ago, i did not drink any alchohol because ive read it can make it worst, but when i went to urinate it did not hurt at all, it felt like so good to not have that pain and i thought it was gone but the pain came back. Anyone got any info? :\.. Thanks