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Q: Go Betweens

asked by: lizzy_09 on July 28th, 2009

Experienced User

My male officemate lets call him W approached me yesterday asking if I could help him out with my gal pal lets call her B who is also my officemate to help him out with her. The thing is, I know she's not interested in him. W took it really hard with his former GF. You see W spent most of his savings in providing his former GF with her college tuition till she got her degree. The only problem was that she was 2 timing him cause his former GF got pregnant with another man's kid. Which is of course what led to the break up. Now, W is really falling hard for my gal pal B. How can I ever explain it to him then their is no chance that B would be interested in him? Should I just continue saying good stuff about W and let B turn him down?

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W0LF

replied on July 28th, 2009

Extremely eHealthy

Yes!
Don't get tangled in other people's relationships. It is chaos you don't need. Pass notes in class but don't take anything on yourself to interpret feelings or meddle in their love lives. If you want to help W tell him not to use you as an intermediary, women will respect him more if he finds the courage to approach them directly. If you want to spare W, be a good friend and tell him to NEVER DATE AT WORK. Not only will it discourage him from wasting his efforts on B but it will save him even more potential horrible relationship problems he'll face by working with his next X girlfriend.

lizzy_09

replied on July 29th, 2009

Experienced User

I got B into a conversation about him and she really wasn't that interested in him. I haven't told him about it yet. But if he ask, I'll just tell him that he should make that move then so that B will be the one to turn him down.

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