i think that your boyfriend probably masturbates a lot and he is used to the feel of masturbation. when a guy masturbates, it always appears to me that he's squeezing his penis a lot harder than your mouth could do during oral.

maybe it's just that he is desensitized because he masturbates a lot. tell him to go without masturbating so much and he'll probably have a bigger reaction from it.

here's the thing. why do it if he isn't REALLY enjoying it...right? i don't think you're doing anything wrong. i had a b/f like this once. i've also had a b/f who was extra-sensitive to oral. i guess all guys are different.

jasmine

i had a bf once(now ex) who never liked oral sex but after i did it he started enjoying it and wanting it more. there are a few things you can try to enchance it. from my experience different people like different things, some like it when you hold the base of their penis with a hand while your sucking some prefer to be slightly jerked off while u suck n some don't like a hand on it at all depends really, but you can use your tongue around the head of his penis if he isnt circumsized pull his foreskin down gently because it feels alot better on his knob specifically the part of the skin on the underside, if you can deep throat then do it but becareful you dont choke or vomit if you are only just trying it, don't use your teeth and you can either suck hard with your lips sealed tightly around it my boyfriend has a huge one so i prefer to focus on the head of it while doing this but when i want to take more in i dont go as tight because my throat handles that. also some people like having their balls sucked or licked I never did it before my current bf but he keeps his pubes trimmed/shaved and neat so i dont mind doing it for him.. i hope this can somehow help you achieve a better understanding of what you are doing, just ask him to tell you when it feels good or make some noises so u know hes enjoying it i can understand u may not feel very encouraged to do it if you think hes not enjoying it you may need to talk about this and if it really does nothing for him well thats not your fault he may just not be that into it.