so im with this guy that i love and ive been with him for about 1 year and 3months but in the begining we started soo wrong everything was a dissaster!! but some how i still liked him and also back then i had mixed feelings about still liking my ex and it was all crazy! soo later on when me and my current bf started getting really closer too each other he tells me that his sisters friend went over there house to go stay over and that in the night the started to watch a movie in his room soo then he told me that his sis got sleepy and went back to her room and left the friend in his room since she was supposibly still watching it soo after she leaves the friend trys to hit on my bf and goes on top of him he says that he tried to get her off but he couldnt so she kept telling him things and he didnt wanna do anything well supposibly but that he then garbs her ass and tells her there now get off and so then he leaves too go shower like at 12 in the morning and he even put it on anything that nuthing else happend and that he regrets its because he started thinking about me but i dont know too this day it still gets me really mad i feel like if he cheated on me and i know he says he regrets it and that he wont ever do it again but i just still feel like somthing is wrong and i feel like adding the girl as a friend on myspace and asking her what happend soo can you give me any advice??
thanks for your advice and yeahh i would do that but this happend like almost 1 year ago and i didnt find out till few months later and he told me part of the story but i always felt like if something else was missing and it just didnt seem right to me until i finally got it out of him! and it made me really mad soo i hangedd up on him and he kept calling back until we talked this all happend a while back but it still bothers me thats why i dont know what to do about it
It hard for love to grow if you dont trust him completely. I would wait for a good time to talk to him and tell him its been wieghing on your mind, if he loves you and has your interests at heart he will be happy to console you and reassure you. Let him know how you feel about him and you arent looking for a reason to break up it just weighs on you. On the other hand if he gets upset and rants on about how you dont trust him and it was so long ago you should forget, you decide if you want to be with someone like that but also that he is i little right. why? because if you are still with him a year after finding out he must believe you loved him enough to over look it and move on... it hard but sometimes thats the best. Forgive and forget... from the heart