Girlfriend was horribly abused as a child.

Hello Devoted Lover,

I commend you for supporting your girlfriend through th is difficult time in her life. The male figure that did the unmentionable things that no human being should experience especially by their male sperm donor. Notice I will not address him as her "Father" because he isn't one. He is a sexual predator who needs mental help.

Your girlfriend is very fortunate to have you in her life, however, your love isn't enough. Due to the horrific nature of her abuse and whom it is by, she needs professional psychological help. She will need it for years to come. I want you to go with her to see a certified social worker, then contact your local Distract Attorney's Office and file charges againist that male sperm doner. You can find both by doing a search online in your city or via the phone book. The school won't be very much help, you have to be strong and take her by the hands and be veryyyyy persistant in getting her to the offices of these people...they will know exactly what to do. You need to ask the District Attorney for a restraining order againist that male sperm donor as well. Don't be afraid, this will be for the best...she needs to start mending, the sooner the better.

Good Luck,

Faded Rose

Thank you for the reply.
Thankfully (in some way...) the 'male sperm donor' left my girlfriend a few months after he stopped abusing her; she says it was because he 'got bored with her' (from what she told me, that's what he said).
As for the Distric Attorney, I would like to know if there is a way to get a restraining order without the sperm donor present, because from what I know, he has been missing for three years now.
All in all, thanks for the advice. I'll also try to convince her to go to therapy, because I really would like to at least stop these panic attacks. I am capable of calming her by myself (a big hug, whispering sweet things, a few kisses do the job...), but it is frustrating to see her like that.