I have been dating my girlfriend for 3 years now and we have always gotten along and nver got into one argument in those 3 years. Just this past August we had a child together and since then she has been kinda distant from me. We always argu about raising our child and can not seem to get along at all. Her Dr. Diagnosed her with Post Partium Depression and put her on zoloft. For awhile she was doing fine and all of a sudden stopped taking the meds. Things went down hill from there. We got back into more arguments and she left me twice and took the baby with her out to her moms house to stay. Both those last times we would talk and things seemed like they were worked out and she would come home. Well since the last time she came home I thought things were very well. We both seemed happy and had fun together again. Seemed like a family again. All of a sudden over the weekend i broke my leg in an accident and after she picked me up from the hospital she said that she cant take me getting hurt anymore (I am accident prone) and that she is just not happy. She left and went out to her Moms again but this time it sounds like she is staying there. She keeps saying that it is something with her that she needs to figure out. She just needs time but at the same time she said to get a room mate to split the cost of her not being there. That to me sound like she needs a lot of time to think. How much time to i give her? What is wrong with her? She sounds very confused as am I. Oh by the way I am 31 and she is 23 and our son is 6 months old. Did she find someone else? Too many thoughts in my head. Need help please. On verge of Breakdown. I love her and my son dearly and want them back. I am nothing without them in my life. Cant stop crying. I know guys are not supposed to cry but I have never cried so much in my life before. I have a bunch of e-mail back and forth from her and I the past few days and they are all very confusing. She said in one email that she just needs time and she is not saying that we can never be together and then in the next e-mail she says go ahead and get a roommate to share the costs of the apartment. I do not know what to think. I have done some bad things myself in this relationship as everyone has. i went though her purse one time and found a condom, that may not seem like a big deal to most but she never would keep condoms in her purse before. And it just so happend that i found it on a day that a good high school friend was supposed to meet up with her to hang out. Weird to me. Anyway help please.

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