My girlfriend was the same way when I met her. She tried to hide things from me, but you can only do that for so long. What she really needed was to feel a sense of belonging. If she knows she has your full support and you give her a purpose in life, she can begin to deal with her problem. Therapy will make her upset, and I'm sure she can justify what she does in her own way. Make a point of telling and showing her how special she really is. Just out of curiousity, are her parents divorced?

Thanks, Ill try that. No her parents are not divorced but do not care for her very much.