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Q: GF not wet for sex

asked by: Keiron182 on July 29th, 2008

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Ive got two questions here.

1: Me and my girlfriend both feel were ready for sex. Weve tried to do it twice but each time. But each time we couldn't get it in. It kind of just pushes against her. She is wet on the inside of her vagina but on the outside she's dry. What's our problem?

2: At a party, my girlfriend was really horny and I fingered her. And for the first time, I got two fingers inside instead of one. She was really wet so it was really easy. But after I noticed I had blood on my fingers. I asked a friend and she said I probably broke her hymen. But a couple of days later i fingered her again and she bled again. I tried to put two fingers in but it hurt her so I stayed with one. But when I pulled em out I had blood again. Whats happend?

Please help me.

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juicyj208

replied on July 29th, 2008

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cut or cherry

You may have cut her inside with your finger and causing a wound to reopen. Same thing happened to me once. I popped a girls cherry with my finger. I was terrified at the sight of blood on my fingers lol. Most likely you have just popped her cherry or made a small cut by going to hard or having long fingernails. Wait a few days or a week and try again.

And if you can't get your dick in while attempting sex, it sounds like she is a virgin and is tensing up, so you will have to be patient. Make sure she is fully relaxed and go little by little and don't ram it in. Focus on just getting your head in her and work at it. Don't expect to get your whole dick in the first time. If this doesn't work try a lubricant(ky jelly ect).

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Keiron182

replied on July 30th, 2008

New User

Hmm Yea I Can Be Abit Rough With My Fingers Sometimes.

And Yea She Is A Virgin, Ive made sure she is defiantly ready and she says she isn't tense but I had always suspected she was. We was thinking of lube actully.

Thanks Very Happy

Georgia59

replied on July 30th, 2008

Especially eHealthy

OUCH!!!

Lube.. Don't EVER put something dry in there. Some women just don't make that much natural lube.... I use it all the time and I've been having sex for years. Use lube and your problem should go away.

It could have been that you broke her hymen, but if she's ever used a tampon (or a host of other activities) that's really unlikely. Most women don't make it to adulthood with an intact hymen. And since it's happened multiple times, it seems more likely that you made her bleed- not trying to say you were doing it wrong or anything, it's really easy to cut the inside of the vagina because it's really delicate. Even when you finger her, wet your fingers somehow, with lube or with spit or something. And watch those nails!! Keep them well groomed. Smile

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