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Q: Gf new foot fetish

asked by: Cortx6 on October 25th, 2008

New User

Hey guys,

Hope all is going well with you. As most you you guys know i do have a foot fetish when it comes to women.

I now am with my gf of 6 months and everything is going great esp the sex. She does know that im into her pretty feet and that turns her on a lot not to mention myself as well. We had sex last night along with our usual foot worship. The foot worship is usually our warm up session which then goes on to sex. During the foot worship she requests me to put on her strappy open toe high heels. I thought that this might take us somewhere and it seemed a little awkward although it turned me on more. To my surprise she got turned on looking at my feet and started fingering herself and she came even b4 we had sex lol....We then had sex after that as usual which was good.

Now comes the funny part. After sex we usually talk. What she said i really could not believe. She says next time she wants to paint my toes hot purple like hers b4 we foreplay and wants me to wear her sexy high heels again.

Ive tried talking to her and her only answer is that it turns her on. She also says that it should be fine because what i want her to do with her feet she is wanting me to do it as well

Ladies some advice is needed here please!?!...Im just confused here as well. It quite obvious that she is also into feet, but why PAINT my toes lol Thinking of it turns me on but its kinda wierd.

Any advice or help would be appreciated!

Thanks
Cort

Replies(8)

Jazzy77

replied on October 26th, 2008

Experienced User

cort. why are you over-analyzing this? what difference does it make "why" she wants to do it. the only thing that's really important is that you have a lady who matches you very well.

it could be that it turns her on to see you get so turned on by the whole foot thing, so she's just turning it up a notch!

in any event, i believe that you are a lucky guy. many, many ppl have a partner who doesn't "get" their fetishes. this can derail a relationship pretty quickly, but you don't have that to worry about because your beautiful lady is feeding yours.

jasmine

Users who thank Jazzy77 for this post: Cortx6

Maddie34

replied on October 26th, 2008

Supporter

Ok, you're asking for advice from a woman's point of view so I'm going to scoot this out of Men's Chat-- which is for Men only-- and into a sexual health forum so everyone can post. Smile

Cortx6

replied on October 26th, 2008

New User

Jazzy77

Thankyou for your time and input into this matter. I do understand what you mean when you say that she matches me and all that. But for a man to get his toes painted feels very wierd to him. Its something completely feminine and to think of the trouble to get all that paint off. My word!

Its like telling her to put on a fake beard or a moustache or grow hair on her legs regardless of weather im attracted to that or not. I hope you get my point here...

Again im not complaining that im enjoying what she is doing to me but yeah!

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Hey Maddie34,

Please put your input into this. I just wanted to know what the ladies think about it. You can put your 2c into this too..

Thanks guys
C

Maddie34

replied on October 27th, 2008

Supporter

Getting nail polish off isn't that hard Wink

If it turns the both of you on, then why not give it a try?

Honestly, as long as no one is hurt (physically or emotionally) during sex, then I don't have a problem with it and it doesn't seem that weird to me considering you both have a foot fetish. If its something you REALLY don't want to do, then don't. But not doing it because other people may think its weird is a little silly.

It's you and your gf's business-- no body else.

Coleminer

replied on October 27th, 2008

New User

whatever get your or her engine running, go for it!

Cortx6

replied on October 27th, 2008

New User

Thanks Maddie34,

I did realise something. Was talking to her about it. When i looked in her eyes i could believe what a beautiful girl i had to myself and i remembered that i promised i would never take a risk at our relationship. Ive decided to go ahead with for good.

She is happy as well as i am. I made her promise me that this would not leave the bedroom lol

Thanks again people
Cort

Jazzy77

replied on October 27th, 2008

Experienced User

glad to hear it cortx6. remember this...anything that two consenting adults do for enjoyment in the bedroom is ok as long as both people agree to do it an no one is coherced.

nobody is exactly the same and what gets us each going is totally up in the air. the only thing important is to make your partner feel special and loved and both of you have a blast!

some things i have done very willingly, but wouldn't do a second time. pretty much i'll try anything once. just keep an open mind and be sure that you're open to what turns her on as well. when she really accomplishes one of your fantasies, don't let that good turn go unrewarded. you push yourself to accomplish one of hers.

on the subject of fantasies, you should talk this over with your girl. both of you agree upfront that nobody gets ridiculed for ANY fantasy. some of them will be stuff that you or she won't want to do, but you might feel comfortable doing a close derivative of it...see? this is why you just keep an open mind and talk through the fantasies. it makes for a healthy and happy sexual relationship.

i've said enough.
jasmine

Cortx6

replied on October 28th, 2008

New User

Jazzy77,

One more thing ive realised is when i spoke to her about our sexual relationship is that even though ive been with her for 6 months, i thought i knew pretty much everything about her.

But man the more i talk to her about things and as the days pass by i get to know more and more. Ive never felt like this before.

Thanks again
Cort

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