Have you been to a gynecologist that specializes in treating pain with intercourse? They are out there and are much more helpful than a regular doctor in this regard. There are even physical therapists that can help you with bio-feedback, relaxation techniques, and other things. I've even heard of Botox working, along with other therapy. Look into it. You don't have to live with Vaginismus. It can get better.

That said, what about artificial insemination to get pregnant? Have you considered that?

Thanks a lot, I consulted one she gave me some relaxation tablet for one month.....no use....well I shall consult some new gynecologist but artificial insemination fears me more. I just can't tolerate any insertion. I am really demoralized. regards

Perhaps under sedation? You could also consult a sex therapist about this, as well. Vaginismus has both physical and emotional components. The emotional issues can be the cause or just something that persists because of the fear of the pain.

There is also always adoption or surrogacy, as well. There are a lot of wonderful children out there in need of a good and loving home.