Until she is mature enough to stand up to her mother, she is better off with her family. It is her life to live, not her mother's. If she doesn't come back to you, then it is her loss. Obviously money is more important to her and her family than TRUE love. What is your dad's profession? Why do they not approve? Teaching is the most admirable job there is, you are educating our children - what more could they want - MONEY? Time will help, if she continues to choose her family over you. There will be someone else who will apprecaite you for YOU! I am sorry you are going through this. I have always believed family, finances, and religion can come between relationships and these issues are not easily resolved.

This is going to be very hard. It's harder to try and get over someone when you didn't break up for a legit reason (such as one of you *wanted* to end the relationship). I have to say I agree with eeyore46, maybe one day she will stand up against her family and be with you. That is if she truly loves you. True love will do anything to be together.


Good luck to you.

my dads a cleaner.. yeah i m starting to make peace with it.. i guess the biggest mistake i made was call her back and complain to her about her parents.. shouldnt have done that.. but i understand the way things are it will only lead to fights and so on.. so i m letting her go.. if she truly cares about me she ll be back..but i decided not to hold my breathe anymore. Thanks for the advice eeyore46 and willa.. its greatly appreciated

No problem. If you ever need to vent please fel free to let it out

I'm glad to hear you are letting her go. Thats all you can do. If your meant to be together she'll be back... if not, you'll find someone else. Stay strong!

Love hurts, but TRUE love is wonderful! You will find the right person who loves you more than anything in this world. Time will help you heal. I am truly sorry for the pain you are going through.