I have a couple of questions regarding Herpes and Virginity.
First of all,
I had my first Herpes in April 2009, and I cured it by taking Virpes 400 (Acyclovir) and Zovirax.
I waited for about a week till I went to a Gynecologist and she prescriped these two medication for me. I was really suffering. The Herpes was very strong and I was stupid enough to think that it'll go away by itself as I've never had any health problems before in my entire life. I'm slim but I have a good health. I never had problems whatsoever regarding ANYTHING in my body; thank God for that.
My first question is, how did I get the Herpes?
I really don't know or not sure whether I'm sexually active or not!
Because simply I'm aware that Herpes comes from a full and complete sexual intercourse between a male and a female.
But the thing is, when I went to see the Gynecologist; she asked me of course whether I'm a virgin or not and if I have a boyfriend. And I told her YES I do have a boyfriend. She said okay lets have a look, and as soon as she looked into my vagina she was like "Its there Its there" (She was refering to the Hymen of course).
I asked her several times HOW WOULD YOU KNOW??? How can you tell???
She replied that other wise it'll be different! Which I really didn't understand how would my vagina be "Different" if I'm not a virgin? And does that ALL what COUNTS? Just the looks of the Vagina would be different? I mean how about the place of the Hymen???
Because I've been Masturbating for a very very long time, maybe since I was 13/14 years old and recently (About 2/3 years ago), I started inserting my finger to the very deep end of my Vagina till I actually reached like a ball at the end (A Wall). So I'm very confused about where the Hymen might be?
I've done A LOT OF READINGS about VIRGINITY and HERPES...
I know EVERYTIHNG!!!!!!!!!!!
Herpes' CAUSES, SYMPTOMS, CURE.... etc...
Virginity/Hymen's Location, What is it made of, How to recover it....... ETC...
You Name It!!!!!!!!!! So I don't need any more information that is already "Written/Posted Online" cause I've gone through it ALL!!!!!!
And trust me, I feel like I've studied Medicine in these two sectors.
But now matter how I read and ask, I still can't find that in ME?!
Does that mean I'm a rare case or what?
How could I get the Herpes when I'm a Virgin? Do I have an Elastic Hymen? HOW?
And where is my Hymen? Its supposed to be at the begining of my vagina which I really don't see!
My boyfriend did insert his penis fully into me and thats even AFTER I went to the Gynecologist and STILL she said I'm a VIRGIN!
How did I manage to fool the DOCTOR?
I'm very careful about my virginity because I live in a Middle Eastern country and Virginity is a "Big Issue" in such countries.
So I would like to know where is my Hymen?
Also after getting the Herpes I asked my boyfriend to run some tests and he turned out to be clean as a baby!
Another thing, I heard from a Pharmacist friend of mine that there is a VACCINE?! But I didn't believe him because its not mentioned at all over the internet and everything said that its CURABLE but NOT TREATABLE!? So what do you think about that as well?
I'm anxiously waiting for your reply and would really appreciate it!
i dont understand some things that you said.
you talk about how careful you are with your virginity because of your middle eastern .. but you then said you allow your boyfriend to insert himself inside you.
if that's the case even for a minute, then that means your not a virgin any more.
secondly, your hymen is just a thick skin at the entrance of your vagina. i cant answer your question on this. either you still have it or your doctor was mistaken. doctors do make mistakes!
if your boyfriend has herpes on his lips, he could be shedding (have no symptoms) and he performs oral sex on you, then that's one way that you can get it.