i understand that this may make you feel all different kinds of ways. Embarassed, mad, sad, and those types of feelings should be the last to come to mind (in my opinion). I was a 18 when I found out I had this. Once I researched HPV I lost all those feelings. There is no way for a man to know he would be passing this to me. So how can I be mad at him or myself? I could have sent him to the doctor even after the fact but there are no tests for it. He obviously had no symptoms... I wasn't sad once I read that it can go away and definitely because I knew that I did not have the cancerous or wart causing types. I was not embarassed when I read how common and how many people actually have HPV.
I did get chlamydia passed to me once and I got mad and sad and embarassed and everything else (lol) and I don't think anyone should be okay with this. That can be tested for and can be prevented. Most other STD's are a different case.
RESEARCH>And if you don't trust your doctor ( i read in another forum) you need to get a new one. You are paying your money to this person. Trust is a part of their profession.