genital warts can lay dormant for twenty , thirty or fourty years. if ur wife had abnormal cells removed, it was most likely HPV. read up about it- just because a partner has warts or shows symptoms does not mean they are cheating.

My hat goes off to you, not many men out here can remain faithful to one woman for 10 years. Did you ever go back to the doctor after the cultures where taken? If you have been married for 10 years communication should not be a stumbling block. You should be able to talk about her past issues, and address your current concerns. Set in on each other's doctor's visits so everything can be out and in the open. Let this not be a me issue, but a we issue. 10 years is a long time, and a lot to throw away due to not addressing issues head on.