Hello all,

First off I'd like to say I am sexually active with one girl now. We both took each others virginity but I had received oral from 2 other girls. One girl I was her first as far as oral goes, and the other was more experienced but is very responsible about getting check ups and screenings every 6 or so months.

Anyways it seems that I fairly frequently get small white bumps on the base of my shaft after sex with my girlfriend. I do not get them if we are not sexually active for a while (like when shes having her period). These bumps are white, are slightly raised, and painful if rubbed. They do break and leave a bump where they were. The swelling goes down and they disappear. Also my scrotum gets irritated and itchy. The last 2 times we've had sex I have washed my genital area right after sex (which ruins the after cuddle haha) with warm water and soap. So far it has worked for me, but if I weren't able to wash after it would be a real pain. Any ideas of what it could be? I don't believe it is an STD, but I suppose I'm not exactly educated in that area either. We don't use a condom, so it isn't an allergic reaction to latex (and don't worry she is on birth control). Any information would be helpful. Thank you.