Hi this is my first post.
A little background. My G/F and I have been together for 6 months and our relationship is going very strong. In fact I know that she is the ONE for me because I'm in Love with her and she is in Love with me. I want to spend the rest of my life with her, we click so well together, and we each love each other so much. We have each agreed to be honset with each other and have a very open to speak about everything and anything.
Today after coming out of the shower I noticed that my G/F was clearing the Recent Documents folder history on the computer. At first I didn't think much of it, but then I found that her vibrator had been moved since I last saw it. My G/F likes to masturbate so I thought, "Hey I guess she just masturbated to porn on the computer". which to me is not a problem at all anymore. I told her before that it's ok if she masturbates without me.
Continuing....I asked her to come to bed with me so we could have sex, she agreed, and I asked her if she had masturbated while I was in the shower (I expected her to be honset as I was going to use this to lead into sexual conversation) To my surprise she denied it, she lied right to my face, she told me she had not masturbated. I told her that I knew she had been masturbating because I saw her deleting the history and I found her vibrator had been moved. Upon hearing this she still was reluctant to admit it, until she finally admitted it. At this point she was upset. As for me I was and still am very hurt, not because she masturbated, but because she lied about masturbating. She looked me in the eyes and lied to me...
Has this ever happened to anyone else? Is it normal? How should I react?
