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Q: friends with benefits but no love?

asked by: whywhy20 on July 9th, 2009

New User

ok so im with this girl who my friend says is fooling around with other people but when i met her she wanted to just be friends with benefits but we went to a party one time and things changed she "seemed" to like me more. days went on and it continued to grow till she started to say she loves me.. but my friend says she likes to mess with guys heads right but i don't buy her things she makes me food and touches me if you know what i mean i don't do any thing there's no gain on her part. but my friend continues to tell me shes fooling around and is puppet mastering guys but she doesn't get close to them so she doesn't have to deal with the relationship part. but she seems close to me she cares what i do gets mad when i do bad things txts me all day and sometimes calls me at night. i dont know who to believe its confusing the **** out of me please if you have any advice tell me

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slowcheetah

replied on July 10th, 2009

Supporter

Wow, its usually the guys that are playing the mind games! It sounds to me like this girl definitly doesnt want to be in a serious relationship. Have you specifically told her that you dont want her seeing other people? Are you 2 officially boyfriend and girlfriend? Because if you arent then I dont see any reason why this girl cant fool around with other guys. It may be "sleazy" of her, but I happen to know that men do this exact same thing! I think you need to sit this gal down and tell her how you feel about her being with other guys, tell her how you really feel about her and see what she says, if she doesnt want to be in a relationship then I think you should just let her go and find a girl who does and who isnt playing mind games with you! Trust me, it may be hard to let a girl know how you really feel but in the end it will help! Good luck Smile

W0LF

replied on July 12th, 2009

Extremely eHealthy

Yes, definately talk with the girl. She's the only one who has the answer you're looking for here. We'd all be guessing. Definately approach her in a low-pressure way. She set the ground rules of how your relationship works the ball is in her court if any changes are to be made. Just tell her you feel like things may be getting serious and you don't want any confusion. People in friends with benifits relationships generally don't react to relationship pressure very well.

Firekitty22

replied on November 4th, 2009

New User

Yes I think you should talk to her and tell her how you feel and see if she feels the same way and ask you'r frend if hes sure that shez 1 of those gals that mess around with other guys cause what if he's wrong and you endup missing out on an opportunity.If she doen't feel the same way ,it's not like she's the only one out there.

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