So, I have this problem. I'm in college and so is my best friend. We live in separate towns and go to separate schools. My friend is only 19 so she can't legally drink, but I think she's an alcoholic. She drinks everyday all the time. Instead of drinking water or soda she drinks wine, she goes out to bars every night and wakes up in ditches passed out. She even started smoking marijuana... I just don't know what to do for her. I told her she needs to stop drinking and smoking, but she won't listen to me. Now, she's missing classes and failing most of her classes. She just admitted that she thinks she's an alcoholic on the phone to me, which is what made me write this. The problem is though, she doesn't care if she's an alcoholic. She said she's young and "she'll worry about it when she turns 35." Thanks for the help