I got married 7 months ago and moved to Az
about 5 months ago with my new husband.
First everything was just perfect, but
after a while we started to fight a lot.
Now he is very tired of me because he says
I am denying and lying. After a fight we
try to talk about it and tells me what i
said to him, since I do have no memory of
it I say What? i never said that! then he
goes crazy and says I am denying and he
divorced his first wife because she was
denying. Then I ask him to remind me how,
when I said this things he denys my
request ans says he is not gonna repeat
and make a fool out of him self, if I am
gonna deny anyway. I spend days wondering
and trying to remember when I said that he
is saying I did, and get no were because i
have no memory of saying. Now he says he
dose't know he loves me anymore, because I
betrayed him with lies and denyle, i am
about to go crazy, usually my memory is
very sharp and I never forget, specially
things I say. I have a therapist
appointment this thursday, he is gonna
come with me and I hope I can make him to
tell me when and how I said that to him,
which I have no memory of. Anybody has
been in that situation? Please share
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Gu£st
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Posted: 07-08-08 17:24pm
put a tape recorder in the room when you
fight, are you forgetting or is he
imagining/making it up?
think about it his last wife was doing the
same thing..... coincidence?
