My wife and I enjoy an active sex life, so we thought. Over the last week we have had a dramatic change in our foreplay. I will gently tease my wifes clit and when she is aroused enough she guides my fingers to her vagina. Within 15 seconds of my fingers penertating she is going wild and then she sprays fluid down my fingers into and onto my hand. I have found this on here to be descibed as squirting. My question is what is actually being squirted. We are not bragging, but we do not understand how it can happen so many times in one session. Last night it happened 11 times in just under one hour. The quilt cover was soaked and so were we. We are in our early 40's and have been together for 23 years and nothing has ever happened like this before. My wife is drained of all energy but is left well satisfied. We like to have oral sex but I am not into the Yellow shower or anything weird. I find it highly stimulating but I do not like th idea of being urinated on.
Please help ME understand as I feel I have finally got the hangof how to fulfill her.
First and foremost, it's not urine. While it does have traces of urine in it, the fluid is an alkline fluid that is found in the Skene's gland (and medicial research has told us the the Skene's gland, also known as the paraurethral gland, is the microscopic prostate for women). The Skene's Gland is tiny when you actually look at it. The hole is next to the urethra, and a good picture I found can be located HERE. I know, it's from Wikipedia, but it's the best picture I could find to show you were the fluid is coming from.
This is very common when a female's g-spot is stimulated. So, it seems typical that this would happen when your fingers penetrate your wife.
The information I gave you is debated. All information about female ejaculation is relatively new and not highly researched. Medical researchers argue about this when it comes up, but I gave you the information/side I prescribe to. Others just generally believe it is urine (and I'm paraphrasing). But as I explained...it's not.
Keep going...have fun! I'm glad your sex life is enjoyable!
My girlfriend does this all the time. I try to catch it all in my mouth and swallow it. It doesn't taste like urine. I have tasted her urine and this fluid isn't urine. It is kinda tangy and slimy. She squirts several ounces sometimes. We sometimes have intercourse first. Then when I go down on her and lick her clit while inserting 3 fingers inside, she just gushes. She washes out my seman and it is followed by her fluid. I love the taste of her juices combined with my seman. I guess I just love bodily fluids. I always lick the seman off my hand after masturbating. I feel so turned on when with a woman, I will ingest anything that comes out of her or me.
i never knew my wife could squirt until one night my buddy and i both had sex with her his penis was a lot thicker and at least 2 inches longer and he made her squirt at least 5 times she would have to quit sucking me just to squirt.it was the best head she ever gave me.. but why would a bigger penis matter does the stimulation have to take place deeper on some women? or is it the girth causing more pressure?thanks.
Hello, I hope this post is still open to answer on.
First of all, my wife squirts, and it took a lot of practise in the beginning, but if you have the right technig, i believe that you don't need a big penis. The G spot is not to deep.
Ithelps me to have long strokes, and wirh that i mean that you must go in and out of the vagina all the way. If she is aroused you take it slow. It helps of course that she knows that you like it very much if she squirts.
yes women can squirt. some very little some a lot. It is from your G-Spot a paraurethral gland just like the prostate. you can feel it on the upper side of your vagina. most r upfront under urethra entrance, a few in the middle and most of rest near the end at the blader
It is the female equivalent of the male ejaculation.
Ejaculation and orgasm is two different things. Both females and males can have an orgasm without ejaculation (this happens frequently for females, not so frequently with males).
If a female orgasms AND ejaculates, it usually doesn't come out with a sort of force. Some women have reported that, but it's not the exact same as a males. It's more like...a flood of liquid coming out. Like a strong drip. Does this make sense?
I'm one of the lucky ones who can squirt too. During foreplay, my husband likes to make me spray, and I do mean spray! Depending on the intensity of the orgasm, it can be anything from a little trickle to spraying so hard it clears the end of the bed! I was extremely embarrassed the first time it happened to me and asked my husband if he would check if it was urine by watching where it came from, he told me he could see it coming out of the front wall of the vaginal opening, nowhere near the urethra or clit. It's not urine so don't be afraid of tasting it.
Well me and my girlfriend havent had sex yet cause we are still young and we kinda wanna wait. but one night we were having phone sex and she said that she was squirting like crazy. and i was kinda worried and turned on at the same time so i decided to look it up and im glad to see that its safe. my only concernwas if it could affect her eggs cause females produce less reproductive cells than men (eggs/sperm) and i was wondering if it could cause any damage... but ur help would be usefull thanx ))
u misunderstand, eggs are not produced like sperm and are not expelled like sperm
1 egg will come down the fallopian approx once monthly at ovulation and can be fertilized by the sperm and attach in the uterus
your gf squirting has NOTHING to do with her eggs
The first night I spent with my current girlfriend saw her orgasam strongly at least 7 times! I'm not bragging, she was easy to bring to orgasam. Each time she came she expelled at least 50 to 200mls of clear fluid. I know because I had it filled my mouth and soaked the bed. If I didn't continually empty my mouth I literally would have drowned. The flow was like a pop top drink bottle being squeezed with the same flow charachteristics. It's opened my eyes. I read the wikipedia posts by femenists and I can say that the majority are wrong! I have known women who laid there like a dead fish. I can tell you that this beautifull girl was a highly intelligent professional and enjoys sex!
I have this cycle of squirting also.. But like most on here I am proud because I can produce alot of liquid to make it easier for my mate. But Im glad I looked it up because I was also curious/ worried of what was going on with my body. Thank You to all who were informative to me.
I also can squirt. Although It only seems to happen when I am highly turned on. I have found it's nice to warn a new partner before you squirt on them...I had a couple of guys think I was peeing on them also! Ha! I am 29yrs old and until today when I looked at the posted pict,I did'nt even really know where it was coming from! Thanks for the info!
I enjoyed reading all the testimonials of their squirting experiences. I too am a "squirter" and it feels sooooooooooooooooo good. It's as if the dam broke. HAPPY SQUIRTING. Continue to enjoy it as much as I do.
I am a male and quickly read through the posts on "squirting". For the guys... In response to it being abnormal. It has been very normal and has happened a lot in my experiences.
The first time I got a girl to squirt we were having sex and I thought she peed all over my bed and was a little grossed out lol. I looked it up after a while and found out it was fairly normal under the right circuuummstances. It is a MAJOR turn on to me and probably most guys. I am not trying to brag but I tried it the next time I fingered and had sex with a girl. I have found that I can make most girls (but not all) squirt if we are very comfortable around me and if she can totally relax.
In a nutshell, what works for me, is I kiss and do normal foreplay. Then finger slowly loosening up vagina with one or two fingers. If I am seeing that she is liking it, I will speed up my fingers in a curled up position, rubbing the inside, front of her vagina (g spot). Sometimes I curl or flick my curled fingers in opposite directions in a scissor motion. Usually you have to put a lot of pressure and use fast motions. I am not sure if it's because my fingers are strong from playing guitar or what lol but it works most of the time . I love doing it and pleasing girls! It's so sexy to hear and see how the girl reacts when she is squirting and to have her squirt many times within 1-2 hours.
But as the person said above, you will want to have a few bedspreads, towels or something to catch the liquid. Again, not bragging at all, just hope I was helpful to any guys or girls that want to try it. Peace all!
I am a married male who loves to see my wife squirts. But she doesnÃÂ¢Ã¯Â¿Â½Ã¯Â¿Â½t like to squirt or to know about how it works. She thinks that she will be because of the feeling that comes before squirting. She usually tries to stop, end, or finish it so quickly before it happen.
I tried many time to convince her that it is okay and there is no shame of having fun. She says it is disgusting. What to do.?
This squirting thing is all new to my body. My ex-boyfriend would show me porn where the girls would do this and I was truly amazed by this ability. I'm over forty with five children, It wasn't until I began sleeping with my current boyfriend that I began to have such a reaction. He is very large (lenght and width) and he somehow hits the right spot to make this happen. I can't beleive how many times this will occur in 2-3 hours, you would think that I should be dehydrated with the amount of liquids that are expelled from my body.I'm also amazed that he can feel when I'm ready to erupt.
so glad to see i am not the only squirter around.... it happened last night about 15 times... i have never done it before and my husband of 10 years thought it may never happen again... he loved it... but it scared me to death...it felt like a huge waterfall comming over his penis... we had to strip the bed... and do 2 loads of towels.. by the end of the day!! i dont if i can do it again but it was the most satified WE have been in a long time!! lol ;~}
i was so grossed out and ashamed when this happened, i thought it was pee but with in 1 hr i did it 3 times, the bed was soaking wet. after you're done with the shame. it is so full of pleasure. i get wet just thinking about it. my boyfriend loves it, he was my first. his pennis curves to the left so he hits the right spot. do not be ashamed. you'll waste alot of time, when you could be getting pleasure.