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can any one tell me is it safe to have my husband fist me while pregnant? will i go into labor early or will it harm my baby? I'm 30 weeks pregnant. i would really like seriouse responses only.
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replied October 21st, 2008
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If you're having a normal pregnancy, sex is considered safe during all stages of the pregnancy. Risk factors that make sex during pregnancy unsafe include:

* a history or threat of miscarriage or pre-term labor
* unexplained vaginal bleeding, discharge, or cramping
* leakage of amniotic fluid
* placenta previa
* weak cervix
* multiple fetuses

Your baby is protected by the amniotic sac and the strong muscles of the uterus. There's also a thick mucus plug that seals the cervix and helps guard against infection. A fist or a penis should not come into contact with the fetus during sex.


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replied October 21st, 2008
well I haven't tried it yet but it's something my husband and I would really like to try this is my second pregnancy and this time around I just can't get enough sex.
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replied October 21st, 2008
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As long as you haven't experienced pre-term labor or effacement/dilation, it should be fine. Listen to your body's cues if it hurts or if you begin spotting or bleeding. You can also ask your OB if you'd like a more professional opinion.
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replied October 22nd, 2008
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I would just stick to normal sex while you are preggo, esp if you've never tried it before. Maybe leave the fisting until after you give birth, just to be on the safe side?
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replied October 22nd, 2009
One precaution you might want to take is to avoid repeatedly forcing the fist in and out of the vagina, as this may force air from the vaginal cavity to enter the cervix and cause an air embolism, which is potentially fatal to the female. Although this is very rare, it is something to be cautious about when fisting during pregnancy.
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replied October 25th, 2009
I would say just hold off...if you're 30 wks pregnant, you're almost done. You'll want to wait a few weeks after because you'll be sore, but it's ALWAYS better safe than sorry Smile
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replied May 15th, 2010
I'm newly pregnant and also curious. I've also been studying midwifery for two years, and from all I've heard it seems like your body will tell you if there's an issue. I can't imagine really hard, rough fisting would feel good with a 30-week baby in your uterus, and you certainly don't want anyone punching the baby, so I'd just say go a bit easy. One great thing, though - if you routinely put a hand in there, the baby'll come out easier Smile
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replied May 29th, 2010
me and my partner do fisting and im 22 weeks and they shudnt push it too hard but still very pleasureable. id recommend it its great
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replied June 2nd, 2010
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For some reason, this is really appeasing to me and my husband and I am pregnant. Strange?
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replied October 4th, 2010
Wouldnt you think fisting at birth and\or sex right before birth would be advicable? Way to women experience tearing etc, laying untouched in a clinical hospital bed before birth...it doesnt seem natural? As a widened\stimulated vagina would not tear as easy, making the process of birthing more easy? I've alot of times pondered this and why it isnt like this
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replied November 9th, 2010
I'm 27 years old and have had one child so far. A few close friends of mine gave birth naturally and ended up tearing or having to be cut so the baby could pass through their vagina. After hearing about this I was worried about the same thing happening to me as I am very tiny. I am only 5'6 and weigh just under 140lbs. I was determined to not tear or need to be cut during labor. From the day my husband and I found out I was pregnant we began upgrading from simple sex to using sex toys (dildos) and gradually used larger and larger ones. Not so much long as they were thicker and thicker. After a month or so he was able to push his fist into my vagina with out any resistance.

Near the end of the pregnancy we had managed to stretch me out enough that he could fit both his fists, clenched, side by side palms down into my vagina with no resistance at all. In fact I was able to push both my own hands in (fists clenched) above his at the same time his two fists were inserted.

When it came time to give birth the doctor (who was aware of what we were doing) told me that he was absolutely positive that I wouldn't tear or need to be cut. He was right. I gave birth to a thirteen pound eight ounce baby boy! No complications, very easy delivery and absolutely no tearing or cutting required.

My advice is, if you're going to get into fisting, don't go deep, wrist deep is as far as I'd go. The side effects can be visually substantial. My vaginal orifice is vastly larger than it was before and my labia minora have a much darker color and they are thicker and extremely prominent compared to how they were before. Thankfully my husband loves this. Physically, we didn't start having sex again until about a month after the birth. I haven't start doing kegles (it has been about 6 months now since the birth) as my husband loved how loose I have gotten. Even now with no preparation he can fit both his fists in very easily, well beyond the wrists. We both enjoy it and have no complaints. Everyone is different, just be careful.
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replied April 2nd, 2011
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Near the end of the pregnancy we had managed to stretch me out enough that he could fit both his fists, clenched, side by side palms down into my vagina with no resistance at all. In fact I was able to push both my own hands in (fists clenched) above his at the same time his two fists were inserted.

When it came time to give birth the doctor (who was aware of what we were doing) told me that he was absolutely positive that I wouldn't tear or need to be cut. He was right. I gave birth to a thirteen pound eight ounce baby boy! No complications, very easy delivery and absolutely no tearing or cutting required.
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I hope no one believed this... "out of hand."
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replied May 16th, 2011
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I believe it, my husband has been able to fit his hand wrapped around his penis inside of me... it's my most used visual fantasy now when I want to get myself off. there has not been anything as hot as that to me. Now I am pregant and we are going to start stretching me out more to make labor easier. I have had three children and have onlly needed one stitch (on my first one) for a very minor tear.
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replied June 25th, 2011
I recently gave birth to my 2nd, first time I tore but this time we used thicker & thicker sex toys before he could get his hand in we did this for a couple of months and then he could get two hands in

We stopped a couple of weeks before I was due, but I still used to stretch myself.

The birth was extremely easy once my baby was on the way out, my loose vagina really helped the last bit

We started having sex after a couple of weeks & returned to fisting after about a month, he can now get both fist straight in without 'warming me up' The sex is amazing he's so turned on by the feeling that he can come within seconds and I love the stretched feeling from the toys we use

It has changed how I look down there, my inner lips now dangle quite loosely and are a very dark colour, my husband is very turned on by this, so I recommend stretching & fisting through pregnancy, nothing too deep though, just go for thickness
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replied August 2nd, 2011
I am 29 weeks pregnant and my husband has fisted me throughout the whole pregnancy. He only uses one hand though. Sometimes he will do me in the ass at the same time as he does it. Their has been no complications. I would just go to the wrist though. No further. That is my personal choice for comfort. My baby is low on my pelvic area and if he went further than it then its very uncomfy. I do know sex has been even better since i have became pregnant and i have been more turned on. Everytime I go to the doctor i get a good report. Hope this helps and always love to meet other people who share our kinks.
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replied September 5th, 2011
Would be fascinated to hear more, Onefroggychick. And I wonder if things will progress over the next month or so?
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replied September 14th, 2011
Things are still great. The baby will be here Oct 10th.
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replied October 12th, 2011
I am 33 weeks today and still as randy as ever! Interesting to see the stories on here. We 'upgraded' our toys because it was like the bigger my belly gets the hornier I am. Somehow between waddling to the toilet and eating all the time I'm getting off at least 3 times a day. Probably tmi sorry but I'm so wet all the time its unreal
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replied October 26th, 2011
My fiance and I have fisted 3 times during the pregnancy, (I am 35weeks) I think I want it more than him, but I'm in the same boat as steppyp, and I'm scared that I will hurt the baby. It always is very pleasureable, but I always have that "what if" in the back of my mind. I had never tried it before this pregnancy and I tore bad enough to require 7 stitches with my 1st. I'm hoping to avoid atleast 1/2 the stitches this time and plan on gong completely natural!
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replied October 27th, 2011
Being on top is the best when you get really big me and my bf are just loving it at the moment. I am wearing him out :-p
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