Is it normal to bleed the next day after
first time sex? I've been wearing tampons
for almost a year now so I think my hymen
is broken; why would I be bleeding?
Also, did any of you have a problem with
getting the penis inside your first time?
It was pretty awkward/funny for both of us
but he got kind of frustrated.
Thanks
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Maddie34
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Posted: 05-03-08 23:27pm
Bleeding is normal but only because you
probably didn't have enough lube and
things got a little irritated. However if
you're really bleeding and this doesn't go
away after a day or two then check with a
doctor.
Things were a little awkward for my first
time too. I was really nervous and tense
which made it hard to get anything
inside and he was really nervous about
possibly hurting me so he had troubles
himself... yeah. That goes away once you
get used to it. You'll learn to relax and
he will work himself out. I'm not really
sure where your problems were but the
awkwardness goes away.
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mommyglamour
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Posted: 05-05-08 01:49am
your suppose to bleed after the first
time. ever heard the term "got your cherry
popped"? honestly ....you shoulda made
him go down on you a long time first, it
helps alot! just remember to do that next
time around...if he doesn't want to then
he's not worth it.
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Maddie34
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Posted: 05-05-08 09:05am
Having your cherry popped isn't exactly an
accurate term.
Most women have their hymen broken when
they wear tampons or even foreplay. Heavy
exercise can also break it like running or
jumping jacks. I didn't have a hymen by
the time I had sex.
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mommyglamour
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Posted: 05-05-08 12:33pm
well , i know it's not a proper term but
that's how most people hear it when
they're told about it...and they usually
hear it for the first time from a
teenager.....myself, i was like 9 or 10
and my friend was a bit younger than me
and already knew what it was and told it
to me....we lived in a pretty ghetto area
at the time.
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Skater
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Posted: 05-06-08 21:54pm
mommyglamour
wrote:
your suppose to bleed after
the first time. ever heard the term "got
your cherry popped"? honestly ....you
shoulda made him go down on you a long
time first, it helps alot! just remember
to do that next time around...if he
doesn't want to then he's not worth
it.
This is kind of offensive to me. I'm not
dumb, I've heard the term, but I figured I
had 'popped' already from tampons--which
is why I was asking. Also, I don't think
that my bf is 'not worth it' just becuase
he doesn't want to shove himself inside me
when I'm in pain.
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Maddie34
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Posted: 05-06-08 23:14pm
mommyglamour
wrote:
well , i know it's not a
proper term but that's how most people
hear it when they're told about it...and
they usually hear it for the first time
from a teenager.....myself, i was like 9
or 10 and my friend was a bit younger than
me and already knew what it was and told
it to me....we lived in a pretty ghetto
area at the time.
Its not so much that it was the wrong term
because it wasn't proper.-- what you said
was just inaccurate. I had to dig around
for awhile but I found a post that you may
want to look through.
OP, I'm pretty sure any bleeding was
caused by irratation, especially if the
bleeding has stopped. Try some store
bought lubricant. I hope things have
improved for you!
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mommyglamour
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Posted: 05-07-08 02:40am
to Maddie34 ...how is it inaccurate? just
alittle slang
and to Skater...i know im a bit hillbilly
but it wasn't meant to come off rude, you
just didn't mention that you thought this
already occured with tampons....and you
totally got me wrong on sayin i said "your
boyfriend isn't worth it if he dont want
to put you through pain" ??? that
wouldn't make any since....i was saying
not worth it if he doesn't wanna take out
personal time on only pleasing you to
relax you.
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Maddie34
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Posted: 05-07-08 11:19am
Did you read the post on the link?
I'm really not offended by your slang and
I understood it perfectly
Your hymen is what you're refering to as a
"cherry," Its inaccurate because most
women either don't have a hymen or it
breaks long before sex is in the picture.
Also, it really doesn't bleed alot when it
breaks and it certainly doesn't hurt much.
Thats why when it does break most women
don't even notice.
Again, I suggest you look over the first
post of the link I left. It used to be a
sticky and its just a little information
on the hymen and it will tell you exactly
how what you said was inaccurate.
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mommyglamour
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Posted: 05-08-08 00:49am
ok thas cool...i see what you mean by
innaccurate now. i thought all girls had
a hymen at some point though...just
horseback riding and bike wreckin' can
easily break them.
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xbostonx
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Posted: 05-09-08 13:32pm
bleeding is normal. I bled for a couple of
days after i had sex actually.
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