first time anal sex

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You could try vaseline.. I am sure you could google.com for some positions. Good luck

And, that her partners totally love it. But, it takes patience and care she says. Not to rush into.

I wanted to try it but my former BF was too squimish and wouldn't even let me touch him down there. Oh, well. Different strokes for different folks.

If this is something that you are both into, explore.

Good luck.

i tried it ith my ex we were together for 4 years I found that it hurt. Take it slow!

i tried it once with my boyfriend, its...different...it definitely takes alot of patience and lube though bc the first time especially is uncomfortable and you have to RELAX..if you dont it wont be pleasant..at all...we haven't tried it again since though...it was more of him wanting to experiment I think, and i guess it wasn't all he thought it'd be(thank goodness haha)

LUBE!! There's no such thing as too much lube! Even the cheap Equate (KY knockoff) from Walmart.

TAKE IT SLOW!! Especially if it's your first time. Inch by inch is best. After about a minute, your muscles should have relaxed and then it won't be as painful. But continue to take it slow until it's enjoyable.

RELAX!! There's nothing worse than stiffening up.

It's like most things, once you get that first leg done, it's so much easier.

If you like it, you like it. If you don't, you don't. Everyone is different, and I would say it definitely depends on the partner as well. I tried it with my ex and HATED it (even after three times ) And now with my husband, it's great! We finally tried it two days ago, and I can't get enough of it! It's really weird saying it now, cause for the longest time I just found it disgusting...

For first timers, try it on your back, it's the easiest way to relax. If you enjoy it, doggy style and laying on your stomach are good ones.

I don't like doing anything in water, it washes away all the natural liquids. So I wouldn't recommend this in the water either, seems way too rough to me.

Use lots of lubricant. Since the anal region is not self-lubricating, anal lubricants are extremely helpful for making penetration more comfortable and pleasurable. Water-based and silicone-based lubes work well.

does it hurts?

It can hurt at first when you are still tight, but after a minute of slow penetration it will ease up and start to become enjoyable.


What are ways to make it feel better?

Use K-Y Jelly, lots of it.

Have you done it?

Yes, I enjoy it with my husband often.


does it turn you on?

Yes it can be a real turn on.


is it easy?

No - not at first, it can hurt, the guy has to take it really slow. If you want more control over how much you take in then sit on top of the guy and guide him in, but lean forward until you are comfortable.

positions for it? You can sit on the guy, straddle him and take it in you that way. Or you can try doggy style but the guy has more control that way and have to warn him to start slow.


Do guys like it?

I think I actually enjoy it more then my husband, lol

How do you know if your ready for it?

When you feel yourself relax

is it better in the pool?/water?
have you done it in the water?

I have never done it in the pool or bath, I think that would be painful cause it would wash away the jelly you are using. I would not recommend trying that.

I actually thought it brought me closer to him (mentally) I had never done it before and had some serious reservations about it.
I agree with the starting slow..(fingers) For me, we had to go doggie style I just didn't have the guts to do it myself LOL
It really all comes down to how comfortable you are with your partner. Because your body tenses up so much, I would wait til your ready.
And a few shots didn't hurt!! LOL

Google a pruduct called 'innuendo anal conditioning gel'
That and plenty of lube are my suggestions.
Rememer that the anal passage doesnt self lubricate like the vaginal passage, so plenty of lube is still required no matter how turned on you are

It's a lot different than vaginal, but my boyfriend likes it. He says regular is a lot better because it's "warmer", but he still would rather have anal because he doesn't want to get me pregnant. But yeah, you really do have to relax. If your all tense and worried that it will hurt and stuff, it will. And slow is the way to go

all i can say is it hurts at first but use alot of lube alot and lay on your sides and you do the work that seems to help but it took 4 years for me to get into it but i dont like it that much so i kinda see it as a waste of time for me alot of pain and time spent trying for nothing

when I did it the first time i wanted him to use a small dildo not a soft one one of those silver ones its about 1/2 inch gurth that was just to get used to something going inside my rear. After I got used to it i had him put it in and I ended up loving it, It can be such a great experience. I say with lube and a little time you can love it. good luck

hiya i have done it a few times with my fiance and yh it does hurt at 1st he is well endowed as well which isnt easy to take but we take it slow then its really nice :0) i just tend to stay doggie for this 1 otherwise it can hurt me even if im relaxed good luck

the key is to relax...to make sure of that, only have a go once your already aroused...
lube..yes
possition...i would say doggy for the first time

it can hurt, if you dont take it slow, my advise is thast you control how fast he penitrates, once your relaxed...its a breeze.

its not everyones cup of tea...and thats prob because of first time bad experience.
the more you do it the better it gets and you will start to assosiate it with the pleasure of orgasm:)

The best lube is no a vaseline but the tongue i use to give my tongue at the anus penetrate it with the tongue it can be enkarged and lubrificated naturally and the penetration is so easy, i prefer to give it in the side ,all the woman i gave oprefer in the side because in that position the penis can be feel inside the stomach