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Q: First sex experience

asked by: Spotts on May 6th, 2009

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i'm avery tiny person, I'm 5'3 and I'm 100 pounds. So that means that I can't be too deep right? Well, my boyfriend complains that he has a small penis. I don't think its that small, but I'm not really that experienced. We had sex, and it hurt at first but then it was fine, but I though there was supposed to be bleedng? And he finished pretty quickly, it was both our first time. But, I didn't get anything out of it. Is he too small? And then we had sex again, and it hurt at first, but still no bleeding. He took a little longer to cum, but I still didn't finish. And it takes him a while to get hard, and actually stay hard. He gets hard, but not like rigid. Is there something wrong with me? I don't masturbate at all, someone said that might have something to do with it. I just think thats weird. He doesn't maturbate either. But I don't know what to do. My boyfriend blames it on his size and how terrible he is, I think something is wrong with me. Really, I have no idea what is going on. =/

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worrywart01

replied on May 6th, 2009

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bleeding doesn't occur for all women during their first time...also, sex is strange at first..you said it was your first time..give it a while...you have to practice and explore to figure out what you like...different positions can help...if you dont masterbate then how are YOU going to be able to know what you like in order to tell him so that he can do it right? Start masterbating..figure yourself out, then tell him what really gets you going and what feels good..he's certainly no mind reader...communication is the key to a great sex life...tell each other what you want...what you enjoy and it will be much better...theres nothing wrong with either of you..it was the first time..it just sounds to me like you both need to figure out what you like sexually by yourselves and then go from there

worrywart01

replied on May 6th, 2009

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