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Q: First Relationship
asked by: YoungBlood15 on June 23rd, 2009
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Hi everyone, i looked but couldnt find anything quite like my situation so i thought id post and ask what everyone thought. Im an 18 year old guy and just recently got into my first relationship. We've been dating for less than a week and so far its been absolutely excellent. My only problem is dealing with my worries. I've always been really shy and it almost comes as a suprise that she even likes me. Being with her makes me a million times more confident, and i have been feeling very happy. My problem is that i find myself worrying that im either trying to hard, or not trying enough. Mostly to do with how often we need to see eachother. At times it seems like i could spend all of my time with her, but how do i know she would to? Also i have this problem with feeling im a bit boring, im never one to really spark a conversation,or do something exciting, and sometimes it becomes awkward and silent. This worries me because shes a very exciting and outgoing person and i dont want to lose her. Ive tried talking to her about this and she just tells me not to worry, which im sure is what most people are going to say, i just need a little reassurance and any that can be given is welcomed.
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ServiceU
replied on June 25th, 2009
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women like guys that is confident, and being the opposite is a bit of a turn off. this is not an insult, it's advice to tell you to be yourself and go with the flow.
she's with you because she likes you.
the love of my life can be borning and he is very quiet. but i talk too much, so he's a great listener. i tell silly jokes that arent funny, i dont know how to dance but i still dance in front of him. i do the silliest things, and he stil love me for it.
my point is if she is the one for you, she will love you, being boring and quiet.
good luck,
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