women like guys that is confident, and being the opposite is a bit of a turn off. this is not an insult, it's advice to tell you to be yourself and go with the flow.
she's with you because she likes you.
the love of my life can be borning and he is very quiet. but i talk too much, so he's a great listener. i tell silly jokes that arent funny, i dont know how to dance but i still dance in front of him. i do the silliest things, and he stil love me for it.
my point is if she is the one for you, she will love you, being boring and quiet.
good luck,