So what I am reading is he wants a perfect girlfriend and you are supposed to live up to those expectations? I hate to be the person with the bad news hon but, that is NOT the guy for you. First of all, there is no perfect anything in this world much less people. If he is looking for the perfect girl, he will be old and gray when he finds one if at all. If this is your first relationship, then please don't let you heart overrule you head. There are more fish in the sea that will appreciate you for what you are. And that will be a real relationship.
I say get rid of him girl, it is because it is your first venture into love. There is more out there waiting for you.
Sounds like he is threatening you into being someone else in his dreams.
Best of luck,

I guess I dont know him as much ads he knows me that what I feel like and hes perfect and knows what I want and I dont so I guess thats what im trying to say

No one is perfect dear. No one at all. I am not perfect and my husband loves me anyway. I drive him insane sometimes and he still loves me. That's what love is, it's unconditional. So if you're still worried about being perfect, don't be. You don't want to try to be somethign you're not anyway. Then he won't know who you really are ever and that's not what you want. If you want him to know who you are, tell him how unperfect you feel. he'll probably tell you otherwise. I spent three to four months trying to be perfect and then realized that is was a stupid idea. You are who you are for a reason. Try to be happy with that. Cheer up.