It's different for everybody, and will depend on whether you have a hymen or not. Just make sure to have lots of foreplay to prepare yourself. you should be very turned on and wet. and make sure to have a bottle of lube handy. just take it slow, and relax cause if you're nervous you will tighten up and it will hurt.

emphasis on the foreplay! this will make all the difference for you!

Have fun!! That's the best advice I can give- have a sense of humor about it, sex isn't ever as smooth as in the movies and there will be awkward moments. But it will be fun and you and your boyfriend are ready for a great new experience!!

So have fun and be prepared for a great time.

(PS- buy some lube or use pre-lubricated condoms)

my best friends daughter says she doesnt know if she had sex when she snuck out of the house & went with friends to get drunk. would the teenager know if she had sex even if it was the first time???

I say yes.

My first time having sex I didn't bleed, I used lube like crazy, everything was really gentle and I was still tender in the morning. I don't know if its the same for everyone but I felt tender for the entire day.

But I can't say its definetly the same for everyone

use lubricant its make it easy and facilitate the intercourse as first time . in my first intercourse lube helped me alot .

I agree, make sure to be gentle and take it slow and have lots of foreplay first or use lube. It will help a lot. Good luck!

No, she wouldn't necessarily know if she had sex or not. Perhaps she should take a trip to the gyno and get tested?

If she was too drunk to consent to sex, that is rape.