well, first i'll tell u, that i'm straight guy!
so here's the story: i've heard, that anal masturbation feels very good so i though "why shouldn't i do that too", so at home i found a very good oil - "the johnsons baby oil" so i lubed my finger and my anus with it and i began... so it was really hard to insert a finger in the anus for the first time, but then i got used to it when i did it 2-3 times. after inserting a finger in my anus i thought, that the most pleasurable moment in my life would begin soon, but i realized, that i didn't feel anything pleasurable, not pain - nothing, it felt like i have inserted my finger in my mouth or something like that. so after that i began to look for the helpful info on the internet, because i wanted to know where the prostate is, so after finding a very good and helpful info about the prostate, i used my oil again and i fingered my anus. With my finger i was trying to find the prostate to stimulate it and i really thought, that i found it, but when i began stimulating it, i felt nothing pleasurable again. why? do i need to exercise in stimulating the g-spot or what?
thanks for the answers.
It's probably a different strokes for different folks kind of thing. I've played with my anus too, and even let my wife do me with a strap-on one time. Meh. It's OK, but it's not all that. I think the whole "male G-spot" thing is blown out of proportion. When you're done, your rectum is irritated, and you spend two hours with "anal dry heaves" trying to poop all that stuff out. I find it a lot more annoying than stimulating, though there's a certain stimulatory aspect to it sometimes.
It totally is a 'different strokes for different folks' type of thing. I'm not a fan of anal stimulation either. I find it's much more pleasurable to stimulate the outside of the anus rather than the inside. I know many men, however, who find that prostate stimulation is out of this world. Then again, it might have taken them more than a few tries to get it right.