hello friends .i would like to ask for
your help again and as always youll have
always helped me. now recently my gf
allowed me to finger her which was great
btw and she strted getting wet (which is
great right? ) .now we both are virgins
and we definetly are not going any further
besides oral sex. so yes she would like me
to insert my finger all the way through
but this would break her hymen . she
doesnt mind though. is it ok if the hymen
is broken with a finger??? also she wanted
me to lick her down there with my
tongue.is it alrite if i do.i mean ill be
sucking on the transparent juice which
sshe excretes.is that safe... what would
be the right way to finger a girl .thanks
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sunflowergrl
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Feb 2008 Posts: 7 Location: ,
yes Posted: 02-29-08 12:24pm
If she is okay that you break her hymen.
Most girls want it to break once they have
sex for the first time. While others dont
really care. As for you giving her oral
pleasure you are bound to run into her
secretions. This of course is all normal
and the more excited she gets the more she
will be wet. If her secretions gross you
out then you may want to try some flavor
lotions or cremes to help with that. Or if
you dont mind just keep whiping away. The
more saliva you put on her there the more
wet she will become. Of course its safe if
you ingest it (me saying this because she
is a virgin) If she had other partners
before you then i would be a little
sceptical. The "right" way to finger a
girl depends on the girl. Some girls just
like to be done very soft and slowly while
others like it hard and fast. I think if
you try it out softly and slowly and then
see what happens. You can kind of gauge it
from there. Just remember when the mood is
intense you may not end up virgins
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coolkenny13
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2007 Posts: 13
Posted: 03-01-08 01:12am
thanks for the reply sunflowergrl.lol so
far the mood has always been intesed but
we decided to no more than oral sex.and
thank you so much for clearing all my
doubts. besides a dildo is there anything
tht go in there ..
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prettygirlygirl
Experienced User , Rather EHEALTHy
Joined: 28 Mar 2006 Posts: 213
Posted: 03-01-08 01:37am
Actually, the hymen is not inside the
vagina, so inserting your finger all the
way in would not break it anymore than
inserting it half way. The hymen is a
muscle located on the outside of the
vaginal opening.
Also, many women do not have intact hymens
when the become sexually active. Many
things can break a hymen (intense physical
activity, horseback riding, tampons, etc),
so really, don't worry about the hymen.
She probably doesn't have one (even if
she's still a virgin).
As to the other question. Vaginal
lubrication is perfectly healthy to ingest
if you're both free of STDs.
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coolkenny13
New User, Becoming EHEALTHy
Joined: 01 Feb 2007 Posts: 13
Posted: 03-02-08 22:20pm
yes we are free from stds. and thank you
for all the replies.helps alot
