If she is okay that you break her hymen. Most girls want it to break once they have sex for the first time. While others dont really care. As for you giving her oral pleasure you are bound to run into her secretions. This of course is all normal and the more excited she gets the more she will be wet. If her secretions gross you out then you may want to try some flavor lotions or cremes to help with that. Or if you dont mind just keep whiping away. The more saliva you put on her there the more wet she will become. Of course its safe if you ingest it (me saying this because she is a virgin) If she had other partners before you then i would be a little sceptical. The "right" way to finger a girl depends on the girl. Some girls just like to be done very soft and slowly while others like it hard and fast. I think if you try it out softly and slowly and then see what happens. You can kind of gauge it from there. Just remember when the mood is intense you may not end up virgins

thanks for the reply sunflowergrl.lol so far the mood has always been intesed but we decided to no more than oral sex.and thank you so much for clearing all my doubts. besides a dildo is there anything tht go in there ..

Actually, the hymen is not inside the vagina, so inserting your finger all the way in would not break it anymore than inserting it half way. The hymen is a muscle located on the outside of the vaginal opening.

Also, many women do not have intact hymens when the become sexually active. Many things can break a hymen (intense physical activity, horseback riding, tampons, etc), so really, don't worry about the hymen. She probably doesn't have one (even if she's still a virgin).

As to the other question. Vaginal lubrication is perfectly healthy to ingest if you're both free of STDs.

yes we are free from stds. and thank you for all the replies.helps alot