You said you think the sudden switch to a new medicine may be the cause? So what's the question? I think you answered it. Maybe she needs to go back to the doctor and either switch to what she was on before or to something else. Medication can profoundly alter sex drive, depending on what it is. What kind of meds is she on? Have you looked it up to see if low sex drive is a side-effect?

Also, I think the working 60 hrs a week is a separate issue. If you need to work that much to make ends meet, then it has to be done. However, if you can find a way to maybe cut down on some non-essentials to where you don't have to work so much, maybe that would be better. That's something the two of you need to work out together. Include her in the decision-making process and she will feel better about it.

i started taking high blood and high cholesterol medicine and i lost my libido completely.
but when my boyfriend comes over he is really freaky so he does a good job to get me in the mood.
you have to get her in the mood, find out what turns her on. soft music, candle lites, tell her to wear something sexy, buy her flowers, make her feel special.

Hey jrcctexas26
Definately encourage her to go back to the doctor to try a differrent medicaion or med combination. There are endless options when it comes to neuromeds. A lot have sexual side effects but not every med affects every user the same way. It's not healthy enterring a marriage when your needs aren't being met. If medication is the problem and it can't be overcome for whatever reason discuss with her what alternatives you both have to make sure your need for intimacy is met.