Female sexual arousal disorder Posted: 03-13-08 13:23pm
I can't figure out what's wrong with me.
I can orgasm while I masturbate, but when
my boyfriend and I have sexs, or he
performs oral sex, I just can't seem to
get close to having an orgasm.
Does anyone have a similiar problem?
Or, an answer?
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Maddie34
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Posted: 03-13-08 15:00pm
Do you give er.. suggestions to your bf
while your having sex or giving oral?
Or just straight up show your guy what and
how you like things.
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rugglerale
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Posted: 03-14-08 08:11am
You are not the only one. I can't believe
I ran across this post. I am 37 years old
and got married when I was 17. I was
married to my first husband for 14 years
and never had an orgasm with him, strange
but true. I thought something was wrong
with me because I had never experienced it
with him or myself. We got divorced and I
remarried. Somewhere in between the
divorce and remarriage I found myself in
the pleasure of my own orgasm. But can't
seem to get there the same way with my
husband as I do with myself. I come so
close it is really frustrating. I don't
know what to do about it as well. Sorry I
can't help and tell you what to try or do.
But I'm here to talk if you want
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rugglerale
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Posted: 03-14-08 08:14am
Do you watch porn when you masturbate?
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Willa Weintraub
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Posted: 03-14-08 14:29pm
Maybe he isn't doing it right. Have you
thought about talking him through it? Some
guys like it when you talk to them during
sex!
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sivajiar
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may be psycological Posted: 03-14-08 14:42pm
did u ever had an orgasm while having sex
,mayb u might have some mental inhibitions
during your early chilhood ,that had left
a impression on your subconsious mind
,that may be playing havoc ,try tantra
sex.
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Tylanas
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Posted: 03-16-08 21:32pm
It's often because he doesn't do it the
way you're used to, so you don't get any
pleasure from it.
Here's what I suggested to someone else
with this problem:
Masturbate in front of him, and then just
as you're about to orgasm, have him take
over. If you need to, go all the way TO
orgasm and have him stimulate you during
the aftershocks. You need to become
comfortable with him! You need to teach
your body to respond to his touch, too.
