when i squirt i don't have to push, and it feels great for me and i do orgasm. try having a partner manually stimulate you, and assist them to sort of train them. when this happens to me there is a liquid [about 4-5 tbls] that sort of squirts, and it was not as thick as sperm from a man but i did have black bedsheets at one time, and i noticed that the "squirt" liquid was milky white...hope this helps, cuz i can't do it any other way than manual stimulation, never masturbation, only with a partner...

When I squirt, it's not as enjoyable as a normal "dry" orgasm for me. It does feel really good to squirt, but I'm usually so distracted by the squirting that I don't really notice an orgasm. Could it be that you're distracted or worried about making a mess? Sometimes that gets in the way of my enjoyment of squirting. Honestly, I'd much MUCH rather have a "dry" GREAT feeling orgasm than a messy "ho-hum" squirting orgasm. I think it's just an individual preference thing...so no worries

Thanks MinnE8. I took notice of what I was doing, and noticed I am constently thinking of squirting too. So my husband put on music and I distracted my mind from thinking about orgasming and squirting. I just relaxed and focused on him and his breathing and stuff. And ill have to tell you i didnt even think about it but i reached climax and it ShOt across the room. It felt amazing like all this pressure released with a moan and my squirting. We both admitted that it was one of my best orgasms yet

Good for you! Glad I could help! Have fun with your new-found pleasure!