your hormones are going crazy. this is the time when your growing breast, getting your menstrual, maybe even acne. your growing up, and part of growing up is making good decisions for yourself.
with all these shows on t.v that show sex i m not surprised.

It is natural at your age, but it's one thing to have "feelings," quite another to act on them. We hope you have the good sense to know the difference. Before you decide to experiment with what you are feeling, consider what others will think of those actions. You need to get some good reading material and educate yourself so that you can make the right decisions about sex BEFORE the time comes. If you don't, what you might have hoped to be a wonderful new experience, could turn into a disaster that you will feel the reprocussions of well into your adulthood. Protect yourself, get educated and respect your body!

I'm 32 years old. I'm not sure if its natural. Talk to your parents. Dont be scared. Your parents or grandparents can help you! good luck. by the way dont have sex until you are 18! School should be the most important thing in your life...

Well, I remember being a young girl and it is quite normal. Those hormones are flowing. It's ok to look and fantasize but be sure not to act on your feelings until you are much much older. Married would be perfect!

I dont wanna wait that long , i think i am ready now , nut i am not going 2 do enything . 16 is the law so 16 it is .

sweetiebabi,

i lost my virginity at 14 years old. i am currently 32 years old now, and i regretted everything that i've done in my early years. i hear alot of young teens on this site ask a lot of sex questions. they want to have sex, but they dont know about all the cautions.
i know your hormones are out of whack, and you have this strong curiosity, but a part of growing up is controlling your body.

13 is WAAAAAAAAAY too young! im absolutely apalled a 13 year old would even know HOW to have sex...you really really should take this very seriously and think about it thoroughly...do you know ALL of the consequences of having sex? not just pregnancy but what about stds? you really should wait until you find a special guy, have alittle respect for yourself...becoming sexually active that early will give you a real bad reputation and thats something that will stick with you throughout middle school and high school and your image is hard to change....I personally waited until I was 19 and found a guy I was in love with...I had boyfriends before, in high school but it didn't feel right..you NEVER want to let a boy use you..thats a real fast way to get your heartbroken..not to mention he will probably trash your name....just wait until you're older and more mature and in a serious relationship and you will be very glad you waited to share it with someone special...everyones hormones are raging at your age...just learn to control it...

i'm going to private message you b/c there's something i want to tell you.

You think you are ready now, do you? Are you on birth control? If not, will the guy you plan to have sex with protect you by using birth control? (Doubtful, since guys that age don't even know how to use protection, and will usually be done before they can get it on.) Are you prepared to have a child, and take the responsibilities of raising, AND paying for all it's needs? Will the father still want to be around? Are you planning on jumping from boy to boy, and having sex with all of them? Are you prepared to get the reputation that goes WITH all that sex? If any of these questions are answered with a NO, then YOU ARE NOT READY. And let me tell you one other thing, sex at such a young age, even with a boy you think you love, is not all that for the girl. Sure the petting that leads up to it is hot and heavy, and feels good, but the actual act itself, is not what you think it is. Your body hasn't had time to develope all it's senses, and between that,the fear and anxiety of getting caught, and the feeling like you just lost a special piece of yourself, believe me you will wish you had waited. And if you don't believe me, ask some of the older women around you if the wish they could take it back. At least 90% will say THEY WOULD, cause chances are, all those guys you gave it away free to are just a bad memory for them now.

DON'T DO IT! you have plenty of time for that. i know its hard to deal with but you'll feel better about waiting once you are at least 15 or 16

she said she is going to wait until she is 16 years old. i still think that is too young. so many things can happen that young people done think about.

Having an profound interrest in sex and noticing the opposite gender in a sexual manner at age 13 is right on track developmentally and like a lot of others have mentioned it's liked to your hormonal development. It is perfectly natural, perfectly normal. You shouldn't feel strange at all. Your friends may not be talking about it but they are going throught he same thing you are or will be soon. Sounds like ServiceU has allready given you the dangers of sex speach. Let me harp on them too. The information you don't have about sex at this point in your life will shock you later on. There is a lot you have to learn about safety, responsibility, emotional investment and social impact of sex before you think about having it. Almost any mistake you make with sex will change your life and often the lives of people you love. If you are really interrested in sex find out as much as you're able about it from the best sources you can find. This information will be very important to you when you're ready to be with someone.

Look guys , i like it that u have replied but some of you are saying it like it is the end of the world !!! . but even i know it isnt . i wont have sex at 13 at all . but i am pretty sensative about it so give me a break . Enyway thank you WOLF for being supportive and caring about it . xxx

If you do kind of mistake then will be big problem for both,don't do.

i dont think anyone is trying to upset you in any way. i think it has a lot to do with how a lot of people felt the same way you felt and made a lot of mistakes in their teenage years.

we just want to prevent you from making mistakes and regretting them.
i had the same strong feelings when i was your age. i didnt have anyone to talk to about it. i hope you have someone that you can talk to about your feelings.

Ok thank you guys for the help