Thank you for taking the time to write in about your concerns. I am sorry to hear that you have been struggling for so long with self-esteem and feeling unattractive. I can appreciate how much you would like to not only have fun during your senior year but also to develop relationships with young women and to feel confident about yourself. I'm sure you know that there are medications that can treat moderate-severe forms of acne; however, you mention that your acne has lessened which has helped but that you still struggle with viewing yourself as being attractive. Such Michael Phelps is a world-class swimmer but he also appears to be confident. That is often one of the most attractive features in a person - male or female. Based on your difficulty feeling confident about yourself and the fact that you note you "feel depressed" I would highly recommend that you consult with a licensed mental health professional. You may or may not need assistance with depression; however, a qualified mental health professional should be able to assist you with developing confidence in yourself and identifying the barriers that keep you from being the young man you want to be. Your last comment - "I want someone to talk to and someone who will listen" is by definition a well-trained psychotherapist. I would encourage you to find one in your are with whom you feel comfortable.

Best wishes,

Dr. Selby