Have you ever felt anything in your life? that wasn't meant to be taken the wrong way either.

Two things if nothing changes, maybe you need to see a dr to rule out any physical or health problems followes by a psychotherapist trained in sex.

I know exactly what you mean. It could be that you are not MENTALLY there. I didn't mean that in a bad way but just hear me out...I know for me that when I have sex with my guy, I have to be there in my mind and KNOW what I want to feel from him. If im doing it just to be doing it...there is no pleasure, so it is as if I feel nothing!! I really thought for a while that it was just me and that something was wrong with my vagina!! LOL but honestly... I would go see the Doc. and when they tell you that nothing is wrong, just try to get your mind into it and tell your body what you want from him. I like to call Sex Prep Talk. Let your mind wonder into all those dirty little places that you wouldn't tell him about!!! That makes it so much fun! Seriously...talk to your vagina and tell it what you want it to do...It sounds so crazy but I promise you, this could be the key to the kind of pleasure that you are looking for.

I am the same way as you ms_dd_2009 get your mind into those dirty thoughts!


good luck girly!

i am the same way! i do it for his pleasure.

try this cream, i bought it at a fantasia party, its called "Tickle Her Pink". you can order it online.

Its a clitoral cream that enhances the nerve endings in the clit to make it more sensitive.

It works! I put it on, even tho vaginal sex might not feel like anything, oral is amazing,

and if you have a vibrator, vaginal sex more pleasuring than what we experience normally!

I hope this helped...

well ya I would talk to your doctor about it. Because maybe your never down there arnt um how do I put it maybe they are just not very senestive. Maybe there is something that the Dr could give you to make you feel more down there.

For sure talk to your Dr, I think there is a reason why you dont feel much.

The glandular system, which includes your reproductive system is part of the immune system. This uses zinc as a fuel. take a zinc supplement. 75 mg daily with your main meal.

Look it up on the web. "zinc and the reproductive system", "zinc and immunity"
Your reproductive system is obviously not functioning the way it should. This could be related to allergies depleting your system of nutrients. Avoid the most allergenic foods such as dairy (very allergenic), eggs, peanuts,food colouring, MSG, potato allergy is common although largely unrecognised. Use sweet potato instead. It is healthier and is not a nightshade family of food. Don't take drugs. Prescribed or otherwise. We all have allergic reactions to drugs. In medical terms these are called sideaffects. Other drugs affect the function of the glands in the brain. That is why they are called 'mind altering'.

Good luck

Hans

u said u have sex with your man because he wants to and don't feel anything. do u feel like u want to have sex with him at and then u don't feel anything, or u don't even desire to have sex and u just have it because he wants to??

Hi there

Yes you are normal. For the most part, I don't really enjoy vaginal sex. I have to be really relaxed and really turned on and even then I've never been able to have an orgasm internally. The way that I have sex and this might sound weird but it works....is get on top of my man and have sex with him but against my clit instead of it inside of me. I highly recommend it as it is the only thing that will work. I have suggested this to a lot of other women and it's done wonders for them. I read above a girl suggested a clit cream....I suggest trying one of those as well.