My whole situation...its complicated. Its hard for em to explain. Its hard to explain why i feel like this. I doubt its depression, but..im just really confused.
For the past two years, i have felt so low. Im only 13. I dont know if this is jsut growing up or...i just dont know.
Basically, at times, i just feel so so low, and jealous of my friend. I feel like nobody likes me, i'm worthless. That I'm not good enough for anyone. And I'm jealous of my friend because i feel like everybody loves her. every time i try make a new friend, they always like her more. I feel like she ruins everything. I don't know whos at fault, me or her. Like, I could have the greatest day in the world, but as soon as i log into facebook and see someone has commented on her wall and not mine, i plummet. I always compare myself to her. She tall, blonde, pretty. I just feel second best. No on likes me, I feel like I have no friends. I always wonder, what am i doing wrong? What is she doing to make everyone like her that I'm not? And why me? Why do i have to go through this?
I get so affected by this. someone help
And sometimes whenever my friends ask me out, i get a really bad feeling, and i don't want to go
I hate it. I used to have a high self esteem, liked my looks and personality, had a good amount of confidence. Now its all gone. I've started to hate her, and myself.
I'm only 13. I keep thinking over and over what makes me feel like this.
I'm just so sad and jealous of everything. Ive had enough, you know. please someone tell me if its just a phase or something. it really gets me down. It probably isnt depression, if it isnt sorry, i just dont know where else to go for advice. My mum and my sister know everything but it doesnt change anything.
try to focus on something you have where she lacks. why don't you try something that can catch attention like wearing new fashion trends, informing new and latest news where most girls and guys would like to talk to. this can make them hook up with you!! if someone try to ask you to go out - JUST COME, GOOOO!!!! because the more you exclude yourself the more they will make a gap towards you. later you will be the one to suffer.
I feel exactly the same.
I have this girl in my class and shes so cute, pretty, flawless skin and bubbly.
I get so jealous because shes so popular and always smiling and laughing and gets so much attention and good marks in school.
I moved schools this year because I had fights with the boys in my old school. I dont keep in contact with the girls there anymore and my bestfriend.
Well at first she didnt have anyone, so we became close and when she found out I stopped being friends with the people from my old school and knew I wasn't as popular she just drifted away and now shes close with my old friends.
I get so jealous, my bestfriend took my place and now she might move to my old school.
I pretend to be happy and hypo near her or she will get angry and be like why are you so blunt?
I ask her out always and I cry alot because I miss her and the way things used to be, when I didn't care about what people thought about me and just went out there and became happy. But now I think about everything so much I'm so depressed and I'm breaking out badly.
I have no close friends in my new school, and I feel so ashamed.
Whenever I speak to my bestfriend I get so angry because I see her putting no effort in making our friendship work and each time I talk to her and ask her out and stuff I feel so obsessed.
I'm always home alone on the weekend and I feel so depressed thinking about how alone I am and on facebook I look at my old close friends and how much fun they are having, I hate it.
No one invites me out because I'm a loser.