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Q: feeling hymen ?
asked by: AshleySophia on July 19th, 2008
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can your bf tell if your hymen is still there after a minute of sex? cause my bf claims my hymen is still there.
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Sydney123456
replied on July 19th, 2008
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I've never heard of it happening, but it doesn't mean it hasn't. I didn't think that the male could feel it however?

Have you ever worn a tampon? If so, I'm sure your hymen was gone before you had sex.
Do you play sports that have some contact (even basketball, especially soccer)? If so, I'm sure your hymen was gone before you had sex.

Did you bleed after sex? If so, your hymen was no longer there after the sex!

Gotta say...I'm doubtful if he actually 'felt' your hymen.
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AshleySophia
replied on July 19th, 2008
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I've never worn tampons, altho i've ridden horses and i use to ride my bike a lot but i never felt my hymen break and i never saw blood. Just after sex my bf said he saw my hymen.
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Sydney123456
replied on July 19th, 2008
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Did he actually look into the vagina?

I just find it hard to believe that it was still there after sex. YES- it can still be there after sex...I'm not saying that, but it's just uncommon.

Wait wait- it was a minute of sex? Like, he was in and that's it? If you were having sex and thrusting...I have to believe your hymen was gone.

EDIT:
I just read your other post. Sounds to me like the hymen is gone (which could be A PART of why sex was so painful).

It also sounds to me like you didn't get enough foreplay before sex. Foreplay not only give you lube but the vagina kind opens a little bit more, making sex more enjoyable.

PS: You're also not a virgin anymore.
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AshleySophia
replied on July 19th, 2008
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my legs were like spread open and he was like yeah i can see your hymen. I thought that was weird.

the sex was pretty quick cause when it was in ( wasnt in all the way he said) it hurt like crazy, i've never been in that much pain. The 1st attempt he tried missionary that didnt go well that was like 40 seconds in me, till his penis would just fall out he said cause of the lub on the condom . Finally we tried cowgirl. He said his penis wasnt in all the way but the pain was just so intense and hurt like hell that was like a minute or so.

im kind of thinking it has to be gone, because i rode my bike a lot and rode horses for a year. it was just so painful it kinda made me not want sex ever again

we didnt get much foreplay, i think we both wanted to get it over with. Really me because i was scared of the pain.
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smilegirl90
replied on October 6th, 2009
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ok so if there was blood it is gone we went spread eagle and it hurt like a beep. i said ouch and it hurts still and that was last night
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