fear of arousal about same sex

Hi shellbell222 and welcome to ehealth: I wouldn't worry about that....I think each sex has their own hang up with thinking of sexual parts of someone of their own sex at various times in their life...Heck, it can make for a great fantasy....IMO, how we act and what we do is who we are....You are not gay and I am not gay too if this is what they call the girls...We are both normal....Now if I can figure out what normal is I will be doing good....Enjoy life....It's a blast...

Oh, and I have been married to the same man for over 53 years, so I, too, walk that wild and wonderful side of life....Take care...

Caroline

I have one son who is gay and another who is as straight as they come. They get along great.

That being said, I wouldn't worry about labels. Gay, straight Who cares? Just be a good human being, do what feels right and thumb your nose at anyone who can't understand.

Have fun with life-it's a hell of a ride!