i can't see how anyone can look at an innocent baby's face and not fall in love with it. that baby will be a part of him in a way. and some guys do step up and play the father role, some dont give a d@m.
it took my son's father a while to decide if he wants to be with my son and i. and when he made that decision, i already moved on.
i m sure your be ready for what every happens, its sounds like you have your head on straight.

It sounds like maybe he is just overwhelmed. Men can get a lil off track pretty easy when something interrupts their lifestyle. It sounds like he is scared? Like you mentioned you both had talked about being parents just not this soon. How are things now? I see you havent responded back. Having a child at any age is an adjustment. Give him some time. Let me know how you are doing

Hi.
Honestly, I have been in that situation ten years before. We, eventually got married after three years of giving birth to my first child. But, 7 years after we still broke up due to irreconcilable differences. I could say that He does love me and that I do love him but it is not enough.
These are the things that you should think of (1)sleepless nights in caring for a newborn child, when the baby is sick, check-ups, immunizations, post-partum depression aside from your usual daily chores with the addition of your child's laundry, mess etc. etc.. and juggling a job at that. Can you survive this?
(2) Are you financially capable of rearing the child? What happens if there is an emergency? do you have savings to tide you over some crisis?
(3) Lastly, based on my experience, nothing is more important than my child. Given another chance to choose, I would always and definitely choose my kids over my husband. If the baby is reared properly, meaning the child's attitude is okay, I can only say that everything is worth it just to have my babies, even all the hardships and heartaches I went through, I would gladly go through it again just to have them.
(4)Don't put your happiness so much on another person's hands. Just let him decide for himself. And whatever his decision is live with it, it is NOT the end of the world.
BEST,
PAIGE