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Q: Fantasy of sex with other men
asked by: catperson514 on January 15th, 2009
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what does this mean.? he said it turns him on if i were to have sex with other men. as long as i told him. i said i would but i'm concerned that this would not make him jealous. i know i would be if the situation were reversed. he doesn't want to watch or be there,Like a threesome. i don't get it, but i can't think like a man.
some insight please
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QueenB88
replied on January 15th, 2009
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WOW..
I have never heard of this one....did you ask your boyfriend if he wants to have sex with other women too? Maybe he is telling you it is okay to have sex with other men so he can be sexually active with multiple women too?
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catperson514
replied on January 15th, 2009
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boyfriend's sexual fantasy me having sex with other men :updat
he does not want to have other woman. wants me to"have these experiences" so i won't get bored , i'm not. we have a wonderful sex life. i've never been with anyone who excites me as much. He claims to feel the same. if not he's a pretty good actor.

hence the confusion.
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bo21
replied on January 15th, 2009
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Can be a big turn on!
As a man, I am speaking from self experence. It is, in facts, a big turn on for some men to even watch his women get laid by another man. This is not for ever man; the mam, as myself, must be understanding, and compassionate- I tried many times to talk my wife into having sex with another man/ a man of her choice, she came close to doing it thee times, but backs out right at the start. To me it is a big turn on. So I started an affair with another girl and asked her to do the things my wife refused to do for me, and she aggreed. I would watch as this man make love to my woman, what a turn on! In return; shy asked me to make love to her best friend, and she ended up in the bed with us as I enjoyed myself making love with two women at the same time.
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rce107
replied on February 27th, 2009
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Fantasy of Sex with other Men
That is one of my favorite fantasies but I must be present and watch or join in. If there were no consequences or lingering problems from acting these fantasies out..we would do it in a heartbeat. One scenario that really makes her wet is for her and I to 69 each other. While she is sucking me and I am licking her, a faceless man with a huge penis enters her from behind. And on, and on....
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elgrande
replied on March 22nd, 2009
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I think
If a guy wants his girl to get another man he is gay
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arbauer88
replied on April 20th, 2009
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Another man with my wife
I love the idea of another man having sex with my wife. I like when my wife tells me stories about her having sex with past boyfriends. I would love it if she went out and had sex with another man and then came home and told me all about what they did.
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Mikolas
replied on April 21st, 2009
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It's not all that unheard of Original Poster. I believe the proper terminology is voyeurism. Most of the world is a bit too insecure with the idea of our special one with somebody else, but its quite a kick for a fair amount. If I had to imagine what stirs them, i guess kind of like watching real live porno right in your very place, and its somebody you know very well?

Certainly, this doesn't count out the possibility if he does have other motives (i.e. you end up having sex with other guys, thus he can prep to ask you to have sex with other girls, or if he is "testing" you). But this scenario is not all that weird, so he just very well mean what he asks.

Instead of focusing more on what he wants, considering that this very well involves you, do you want to do this for him? If you don't feel comfortable with the idea of that, then he will just have to accept it.
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beanie35
replied on April 29th, 2009
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fantacy of sex with other men
girl! the solution to your concern is this, JUST LIE, he can verify it...LMAO
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