I am a twenty-seven mother of two beautiful girls! My husband is the best man in the world and my parents and siblings are the worst ever. To start this off, i have three sisters and a brother. One of my sisters is making my life a living hell. She's very competitive with everyone and she does so many wrong things in her life and just does not think anything she does is incorrect. She's married with three children, has cheated on her husband a number of times but she and my mom left it in the past and in their eyes it never happened. Growing up she always treated me badly. She would have get togethers at her house and i was never invited. When i got married at Las Vegas, she couldn't go but when my mom called her to tell her i was married, she hung up on my mom because she did not want to talk to me. Well, just last year i was pregnant with my second child and my house got very messed up from a hurricane, well, she started making up so many stories about me and my husband. she talked badly about my husband and i. Well, when i told my mom and dad what happened, they told me there wasn't anything wrong with what she did. Ugh??? Just last month was my parents anniversary, well my sister and my brother's wife were planning a brunch and i never got invited to it. i really need some feed back. My parents are blaming me for everything's that's going on.
All I can tell you, is to not give up. Maybe stay away from your family for a while until they realize what's what. Or maybe try and talk with your parents alone, without your sister. If that doesn't work, just let them be for a while, if you can.
Thank you so much for your response. I have tried talking to my parents but they keep telling me that i am hurting my sister when i'm the victim here. Just today i spoke to my dad and he wants to come see the girls but he told me to stop fighting with my sister cause i'm hurting her and him. I am so sad that they just don't have my support on anything. I am hurt deeply, i am always depressed about this. My sister has a daughter two months older than mine and I ran out of milk one time and asked my sister for some to give to my baby and she refused and told me she was out. Later on that same day i saw her pulling out the bottle of milk to give her daughter, i mean, the can was the biggest there was. I cried that night after i found out how ugl she could be to a 6 month old. She's never appologized to me nor my husband. She think that what she's doing to me is ok and the sad thing is that my parents are supporting all her bad habbits and i'm looking like the bad one here.
I'm glad I could help, just remember, don't give up hope. Maybe go see a counselor. Talking to a stranger and telling them all your problems could help, and if you're really depressed...they might even start you on an antidepressant. But it's up to you! Hope everything gets better, I'll say a prayer.
hi can some1 help,and you are a better person than your sister!
hi this is weird because my sister has 3 children 2 boys for the guy she is with now and 1 daughter from when she got pregnantat 13/14years young and ruined the family home went on drugs she done everything has alwas been jealous/competitve and my mam and dad aint with each other anymore my dad has a new family my mams an alchoholic and i just think there a unch of hippocrits my sister gave me drugs her little baby sister and laughed at me when i realised i was addicted im so sick of all of there decietfullness,my dad doesnt gve a shot and my mam well she the same i live with my boyfriend and his mam since im 17 i finished high school done great went to my prom my sister wouldnt even get in a picture the last few years from holidays to bays its competitive and talk about mean she is nasty she would do that with the milk and because she drives and all they think shes something uughhhh like i drive but for some reason i think she is always no i know she always talking about me ,&we dont talk well she will say hello when not with her woman beaten boyfriend it annoys me because iv been trying to get pregnant and fail we are togter 8 nearly 9 years i love my fiance oh i just feel so alone & im in a jo which im not earning any more money i tought it would be a good job, but all they do is be jealous and talk behinhd your back im so so so so sick of it,i didnt go in today like its not even aa job its 3hours a day i get more on the dole/social im not earniing im losing and to be honest i have no money to lose everything is so complicated since i done this am i a failure if i leave this so called job all we do is go in and its for re-covering drug alchoholics and im just the youngest in it and i am clean 5 years but i feel if i stay there i wont be if any1 can understand im not stupid some of these ppl well all of them are only there because they get extra cash i dont im not happy:( please reply some1 & sorry for rambling on dont mind your sister that girl is right a councellor or something you need to talk with,roslyn...