tell him how to give oral properly speak the truth in a good way though as not to hurt his feelings

go to the clinc talk to a professional and maybe consider sexual enhancements...never tried them myself but im going to the clinic to acquire support and knowledge...

i m 32 years old and i had my first orgasm when i was 25 through sex.
some guys can perform oral sex and you can see stars, and some guys dont know what theyre doing and you wont get a feeling out of it at all.
i m with a freaky 51 y.o guy and he is into pleasing me and taking his time w/ foreplay. the younger guys ive dated didnt know what they were doing that's why i never had an orgasm.
you have to show him, or tell him what really feels good, like consentrating on the tip of your clit. it's not you, if your able to have an orgasm, you know how to give yourself an orgasm you have to try to make it fun for your partner to explore your body.
my b/f and i had sexual issues but we resolved them through talking about out problem.
you can be with one guy and everything can be perfect, and find someone else and you have to put a little more work into it. dont let it be frustrating for you.
this is the second time i had to work hard or a sexual relationship and it worked out okay, and it can be that way for you.

its worse for me i cant even orgasm on my own never mind sex like what..im waiting to see a specialist..im gona hav to fake it wen my boyfriend comes to stay its so embarrasing

elvaX
you should research sexual dysfunction for women. you should try to read about what your going through, you might find out the reason why. for example my ex's ex g/f never had an orgasm, but she was abused as a child so that has a lot to do with it.
when i was young i always faked an orgasm, b/c most of the guys wasnt doing it for me.
then i went through a phase where i was quiet as a mouse.
now i am quiet, but i scream when it happens.