Sounds like Rosachea. Make an appointment with a dermatologist. There are oral medications and creams that can help treat it. It's probably nothing serious, so don't worry until your doctor looks at it.
If she had lupus, I think she would have other symptoms after 4 years. With something as simple as a rash, why would you assume it was something like lupus without anything else to point to that? It's like someone saying they have a sore throat and you saying they have throat cancer. You are scaring her unnecessarily.